Originally posted by Coach McGuirk
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Also, Junkie referenced Apo and Texas....Texas wanted him to commit, but did they tell him that once he committed, if he tripped elsewhere they would pull the scholarship? They might have, I don't know.
The problem here isn't in wanting to secure a commit....it is in forbidding the recruit from making any other visits post-commit. Why forbid it? If you receive an academic scholarship from BYU and you state your intent to attend the Y, do they threaten to pull everything off the table if you subsequently visit any other schools? Just the act of visiting another school makes you lose your scholarship?
It isn't a huge problem, either. I believer others here when they say that it is a common practice. But I do think it has a tinge of insecurity to it.

She wanted to go out with him, to deal with a few unresolved issues she had and primarily to make sure she didn't have any feelings she would always wonder "what if...". I wasn't particularly happy with the situation, but I understood her feelings so I dealt with it Obviously, everything worked out fine for me. Now if the same scenario was to occur 5 days before our wedding, I think I would have A LOT more trouble being the supportive boyfriend. I can't speak for others, and maybe it would have been dumb, but I'm pretty sure I would have issued the ultimatum, him or me, if I knew my family and friends were already in route to see the wedding.
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