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    Depicted in the photo here is Little Robin and a sister from the local branch. I haven't seen her in some five year, since I severed my ties to the church, and Faith hasn't seen her in about that time, since she stopped going to church. This kind sister knocked on our door literally within a few minutes of Cowboy posting this:

    It's an awakening the first time you realize that you can't always persuade your kids to believe you are right. Next thing you know he'll want to become a Mormon.
    Anyhow, for reasons which will soon be apparent, I thought this story was full of some great Mormon pathos, and would therefore be of interest to you good folks of CUF.

    The sister is one of the only white sisters who lives within the boundaries of the branch. She is an old hippie convert, and had long been viewed by the other members as one of the branch eccentrics. She had definitely been a bit marginalized by the other members for her peculiar outlook. Before Faith stopped attending, she had been serving as the primary president of the branch, and had chosen this good sister to be her only counselor. The branch president had felt some reservations about Faith's choice, but Faith insisted that this good sister had a beautiful spirit that would enrich the lives of the children. It meant a lot to the sister to be called (it may have been one of her only callings), and she accepted the challenging calling and served the children well, just as Faith had expected. It was through the primary that this sister came to know Little Robin.

    So the sister hasn't seen Little Robin in five years. Little Robin is ten, and half of his life has passed by since the sister last saw him. Little Robin has no recollection of this woman or anything that happened at church, except the sacrament (bread!) and branch meetings after church when day-old pastries were given to any branch members that cared to take them (donated by a local bakery). Little robin remembers the donuts.

    Shortly before Faith stopped attending the branch, she and this sister were planning to perform a musical number, A Poor Wayfaring Man of Grief, to commemorate Martin Luther King Jr. Day, which was always a big deal for the branch. In the number Faith was going to play the guitar, this sister would play the banjo, and they would sing the hymn as a duet. They practiced for weeks in preparation to perform for their branch family. On the day of the meeting, the branch president caught wind that a banjo would be included in the number. He shut down the performance, and broke this woman's heart.

    What Faith and I didn't know is that this woman had not seriously picked up the banjo again in all of the time between that disappointing day and the moment yesterday when she came knocking on our door. The Spriit, she claimed, had moved her to come by yesterday and present to Little Robin the banjo as a gift.

    She went on to share with us her testimony of music, Pete Seeger, the Word of Wisdom, and many other things which, because of her kind warm spirit, I felt to be profound and moving. She taught Little Robin a few simple tricks and techniques with the banjo and blessed him that Pete Seeger might live long enough to meet him.

    I could tell from the moment she walked in the door that this was going to be one of those surreal important moments in life, and I wanted to capture some of it, so I asked her for permission to photograph and record her visit. She obliged.

    What follows are some of the bits and pieces of this visit. It probably runs a bit long for most of you, but I made it for me and Faith and Little Robin, so that is okay. I share it with you. At one point during the video she is talking about a talk I gave at the branch, one of those introductory talks. She talks about approaching me in the hall before the talk, to ask me some questions.

    Anyhow, what a lovely woman and what a lovely testimony:
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    Last edited by RobinFinderson; 07-15-2009, 03:48 PM.

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    Thanks for sharing this Robin.
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    • #3
      I didn't know you attended the branch; it was called the SouthWest Branch back in the day. Thanks for sharing that. When the branch was initially dissolved, my home ward absorbed most of the members. I have fond memories of that time. I'm sure we know some of the same people.

      Did you know Steve & Lynette Allen? They are close friends of my parents.

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      • #4
        What a beautiful and warm woman. You're lucky to know her. Thanks for sharing.

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        • #5
          The sister seems pretty interesting. Sounds like she was out doing her home teaching How nice of her to drop by and give little Robin a banjo.

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          • #6
            What a great story, thanks for sharing something so personal.

            Some of the details of you history I'm not aware of may be common knowledge (I had no idea you weren't an ABYUF), or more likely none of my business. However, I will still ask.

            * What part of LA are you in? Is your branch, or former branch, primarily African American or a mixture of all races?
            * Was it the doctrine or the people that finally led you part ways with the church?
            * Can little Robin strum "Follow the Prophet" with it's hypnotic chorus yet?

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            • #7
              Originally posted by SipiTau View Post
              I didn't know you attended the branch; it was called the SouthWest Branch back in the day. Thanks for sharing that. When the branch was initially dissolved, my home ward absorbed most of the members. I have fond memories of that time. I'm sure we know some of the same people.

              Did you know Steve & Lynette Allen? They are close friends of my parents.
              The branch is still around. Steve had been called to be the branch president shortly after I stopped attending, so yes, we know the Allens. Very nice people.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Art Vandelay View Post
                What a great story, thanks for sharing something so personal.

                Some of the details of you history I'm not aware of may be common knowledge (I had no idea you weren't an ABYUF), or more likely none of my business. However, I will still ask.

                * What part of LA are you in? Is your branch, or former branch, primarily African American or a mixture of all races?
                * Was it the doctrine or the people that finally led you part ways with the church?
                * Can little Robin strum "Follow the Prophet" with it's hypnotic chorus yet?
                We are in South Central. The branch, which was once commonly called 'The Black Branch' (I had heard it called that before we moved here), is about six blocks from our house.

                It was the doctrine and leadership that led me to part ways. I still love the people.

                The only hymns Little Robin can play right now are Simple Gifts, Amazing Grace and Silent Night.
                Last edited by RobinFinderson; 07-15-2009, 04:22 PM.

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                • #9
                  Little Robin looks right at home with that banjo. I'll bet that it will become quite important to him.
                  Ain't it like most people, I'm no different. We love to talk on things we don't know about.

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                  • #10
                    Robin,

                    That was most excellent...I feel like I've been a guest in your home now. If your son likes banjo music, he might enjoy the Avett Brothers; they're not your typical bluegrass band....I created a thread on here that got zero responses, but it has some videos linked if he's interested.

                    That pic of him you posted will be one of those you always remember when you're older.
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                    • #11
                      That is really fun. Thanks for sharing. You can see the genesis of the old adage that we respect our elders. Not necessarily because they are frail or helpless, but because they are wise and see through the nonsense to that which is it most important.

                      Also, is there an instrument that more effectively captures the nostalgia of the early American spirit? Pioneers, the western frontier, riverboats, the old West, Manifest Destiny. The guitar is beautiful and certainly has its place, but for some reason, when I hear banjo, I instantly think "Americana."
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                      • #12
                        Good stuff, Robin. Thanks for posting that. It sounded like Little Robin had a little Deliverance going there. Post a full vid when he's mastered it.

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                        • #13
                          Thanks Robin. That was very moving.
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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Colly Wolly View Post
                            Good stuff, Robin. Thanks for posting that. It sounded like Little Robin had a little Deliverance going there. Post a full vid when he's mastered it.
                            I think it'd be much more appropriate to reference the song "Dueling Banjos" than to mention a movie famous for its depictions of male anal rape, especially when talking about someone else's adolescent son. Just sayin'
                            "Wuap's "problem" is that he is smart & principled & committed to a moral course of action. His actions are supposed to reflect his ethical code.
                            The rest of us rarely bother to think about our actions." --Solon

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by wuapinmon View Post
                              I think it'd be much more appropriate to reference the song "Dueling Banjos" than to mention a movie famous for its depictions of male anal rape, especially when talking about someone else's adolescent son. Just sayin'
                              Dueling Banjos was the song in Deliverance.
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