I'm done

[UtahDan]

One of the first rules of internet messageboards is not giving up info that people can use to bludgeon you with -- unless you are willing to take the beating because the beating will inevitably come. Once stuff is out of the bag it's impossible to put it back in.

I'm not condoning or excusing; it is what it is.

That is one of the things that has made this community great. Acting guardedly with each other so no one will say something truly awful to you because, hey, that's just what we do here.

[Jeff Lebowski]

That is one of the things that has made this community great. Acting guardedly with each other so no one will say something truly awful to you because, hey, that's just what we do here.

That wasn't his point at all. But I imagine you know that.

[Indy Coug]

That is one of the things that has made this community great. Acting guardedly with each other so no one will say something truly awful to you because, hey, that's just what we do here.

Platitudes are nice and all...

[RobinFinderson]

Thanks. I guess that is probably the better approach. Somethings just aren't cool, and though I may have over-reacted, that is twice now that people have attributed the demise of my children's family to my board persona. That is beyond uncool and should be completely unacceptable.

In the end, though I suppose I shouldn't let it bother me. It does though. I invite anyone else whose wife cheated on them for years and with dozens of guys and gals to not be affected when told it was your fault. Its hard enough to accept what blame I do own, and yes it is still raw.

At some point in his life, CJ decided that Jesus needed an asshole in His corner. If you accept that CJ really believes in Mormonism, and doesn't just profess belief because he enjoys the structure that Mormonism brings to his sadism, then CJ is a kind of Christ-figure who has traded salvation for the privilege of exercising damnable cruelty on behalf of Jesus Christ.

I have got to think that CJ is actually the biggest unbeliever among us, because he clearly has no respect for the Mormon church, of which he makes a continual mockery with his 'asshole-for-Christ' schtick.

Stick around.

[Jacob]

Thanks. I guess that is probably the better approach. Somethings just aren't cool, and though I may have over-reacted, that is twice now that people have attributed the demise of my children's family to my board persona. That is beyond uncool and should be completely unacceptable.

In the end, though I suppose I shouldn't let it bother me. It does though. I invite anyone else whose wife cheated on them for years and with dozens of guys and gals to not be affected when told it was your fault. Its hard enough to accept what blame I do own, and yes it is still raw.

If that's all true. You should probably stop blaming the church and it's membership for your ex being a whore. You will offend fewer people.

[Tone Loc]

Thanks. I guess that is probably the better approach. Somethings just aren't cool, and though I may have over-reacted, that is twice now that people have attributed the demise of my children's family to my board persona. That is beyond uncool and should be completely unacceptable.

In the end, though I suppose I shouldn't let it bother me. It does though. I invite anyone else whose wife cheated on them for years and with dozens of guys and gals to not be affected when told it was your fault. Its hard enough to accept what blame I do own, and yes it is still raw.

I dont mean to be callous, but were you able to take advantage of this and join her in the aforementioned, uh, situations? If so, awesome. If not, would you now say that not doing so would be one of the biggest mistakes you have ever made in your life?

Be honest.

[DU Ute]

At some point in his life, CJ decided that Jesus needed an asshole in His corner. If you accept that CJ really believes in Mormonism, and doesn't just profess belief because he enjoys the structure that Mormonism brings to his sadism, then CJ is a kind of Christ-figure who has traded salvation for the privilege of exercising damnable cruelty on behalf of Jesus Christ.

I have got to think that CJ is actually the biggest unbeliever among us, because he clearly has no respect for the Mormon church, of which he makes a continual mockery with his 'asshole-for-Christ' schtick.

Stick around.

[cougjunkie]

If this was your candidacy speech to become a member of the PUSS leadership council. Bravo by my friend.

With that being said some of you need to sack up and learn that if you are going to dish it out you should probably be prepared to take a little in return.

I also doubt you leave you seem to like the attention to much.

[Donuthole]

I dont mean to be callous, but were you able to take advantage of this and join her in the aforementioned situations. If so, awesome. If not, would you now say that not doing so would be one of the biggest mistakes you ever made in your life?

Be honest.

I know you think you're being funny, but you're not even in the right area code. And when you feign seriousness, just realize that the facade is pretty transparent.

That said, ac would be wise to learn from his past mistakes and not divulge details like this unless he wants to be subjected to stupid comments like yours.

[cougjunkie]

I know you think you're being funny, but you're not even in the right area code. And when you feign seriousness, just realize that the facade is pretty transparent.

That said, ac would be wise to learn from his past mistakes and not divulge details like this unless he wants to be subjected to stupid comments like yours.

I actually thought it was funny. I would love to hear more about the "Gals" his wife was hooking up with.

[Tone Loc]

I know you think you're being funny, but you're not even in the right area code. And when you feign seriousness, just realize that the facade is pretty transparent.

That said, ac would be wise to learn from his past mistakes and not divulge details like this unless he wants to be subjected to stupid comments like yours.

It is? Who knew?

I can't fool you smartypants.

[Donuthole]

It is? Who knew?

I can't fool you smartypants.

That was preemptively included in case you came back alleging to have been serious. I haven't read many of your posts, so I don't know how much sarcasm you naturally incorporate therein. Without a emoticon, what was I supposed to think? My point remains: your joke wasn't funny.

[wuapinmon]

athiestcoug has been a persistent asshole ever since he came here with a caustic smugness that I've found extremely offputting. With that said, cougjunkie says vicious things designed to actually hurt people. His comment today was so far beyond the pale that I am disappointed that some of the board's more noble posters didn't publicly call out his misanthropy as patently inappropriate.

[woot]

athiestcoug has been a persistent asshole ever since he came here with a caustic smugness that I've found extremely offputting. With that said, cougjunkie says vicious things designed to actually hurt people. His comment today was so far beyond the pale that I am disappointed that some of the board's more noble posters didn't publicly call out his misanthropy as patently inappropriate.

I called him out! But I guess wuap doesn't consider me noble...

[wuapinmon]

I called him out! But I guess wuap doesn't consider me noble...

You and I are not noble. Our past is too checkered to ever expect any kind of peerage. But, there are others among the noble and great ones who I expected to decry the callousness of attacking someone over something so deeply personal.