Originally posted by PaloAltoCougar
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Now there are lots of problems using earnings as a basis for SS benefits like comparing a 75K income in Tulsa to a 150K income in NYC. However, I'm amazed at how neglectful some people are with respect to retirement planning and financial planning in general. I don't care if someone opts to vacation in Hawaii, go on a couple of cruises each year, purchase new cars every four years, buy an expensive house and continually refinace it until property values drop, upgrade their wardrobe semi-annully, buy a boat, build a pool, and have a flat screen TV in every room...until they want me to forgo my SS benefits and press for tax increases on those still working because they haven't managed to save anything for their retirement.
It's already coming to terms in my own family. Grandparents are being asked to contirbute to their grandchildren's college tuition. And my folks are asking me how we are managing to fund two kids in college and still keep on track for retirement while a sibling with a higher income apparently doesn't have sufficient funds to send his oldest to the same university as one of my kids. It's being treated as a family emergency...one that has been 18 years in the making. My answer: Well for starters we stayed in the same "comfortable" home and didn't upsize houses and double our mortgage; and when my kids lobbied with me to go to Disneyland with their cousins, I asked them if they would rather go to Disneyland or have help with college tuition. My folks are thinking about helping out this family with college costs and then deducting it from their inheritance. It's their money and I don't want to see my neice punished but it should make things real interesting when my folks estate is settled. I warned them that they're just doing what congress does and "kicking the can on down the road". It won't be long until they are asked to finance another family emergency...like another trip to Disneyland.
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