Originally posted by BlueK
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Obviously I'm not wanting this to turn into war. But I'm OK with NK getting a little freaked out.
On the other hand - and I don't think Trump is doing this (unfortunately) - there is both a theory in psychology and a parenting technic I've see that both have to do with matching.
First - the theory in psychology. The idea is that you match the client's intensity and mannerisms - you begin where they are. If they are loud and fast, so are you. Then, you can slowly begin to be less loud and less fast. And as you move to a different place, they will tend to follow you.
If this is a starting place, and Trump can slowly walk back his hyperbole and get Kim to follow - win/win!
Second - the parenting technic. Basically, when a kid starts to throw a tantrum, you start your own tantrum right there with them. They'll see what you're doing, how out of control and silly it looks, and they'll stop to take it in. Then you can have a conversation about it.
Kim has been tantruming in NK for years. If Trump's tantrums get him to pause and look around a little, maybe that's OK too.
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