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  • HuskyFreeNorthwest
    Time to camp
    • Nov 2008
    • 26082

    #1

    I didn't wear a tie to church today

    And it made the whole experience much more enjoyable.
    Get confident, stupid
    -landpoke
  • LA Ute
    Receiver of Memory
    • Nov 2008
    • 19512

    #2
    Originally posted by HuskyFreeNorthwest View Post
    And it made the whole experience much more enjoyable.
    When I finally am released from the bishopric I plan to wear blue, pink or striped shirts every week for at least a few months.
    “There is a great deal of difference in believing something still, and believing it again.”
    ― W.H. Auden


    "God made the angels to show His splendour - as He made animals for innocence and plants for their simplicity. But men and women He made to serve Him wittily, in the tangle of their minds."
    -- Robert Bolt, A Man for All Seasons


    "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
    --Antoine de Saint-Exupery

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    • scottie
      Senior Member
      • Nov 2008
      • 5247

      #3
      Originally posted by LA Ute View Post
      When I finally am released from the bishopric I plan to wear blue, pink or striped shirts every week for at least a few months.
      When our 2nd counselor was released about a year ago, the very next Sunday he came to church with a goatee and orange shirt.

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      • pellegrino
        miserere me
        • Jan 2009
        • 12100

        #4
        Originally posted by LA Ute View Post
        When I finally am released from the bishopric I plan to wear blue, pink or striped shirts every week for at least a few months.
        Is the white shirt mandatory, self imposed, or is it just "strongly suggested?" I've always wondered if and/or how they communicate such vital information to new bishoprics.
        Dio perdona tante cose per un’opera di misericordia
        God forgives many things for an act of mercy
        Alessandro Manzoni

        Knock it off. This board has enough problems without a dose of middle-age lechery.

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        • LA Ute
          Receiver of Memory
          • Nov 2008
          • 19512

          #5
          Originally posted by pellegrino View Post
          Is the white shirt mandatory, self imposed, or is it just "strongly suggested?" I've always wondered if and/or how they communicate such vital information to new bishoprics.
          I can speak only for myself. We've never been instructed to do it. When I am in church as a bishopric member I wear a white shirt simply out of respect for the office and to avoid being a distraction. Also, since the Aaronic Priesthood boys who pass the sacrament are supposed to wear white shirts, I feel that I ought to as well. After all, the bishopric presides over the AP.

          FWIW, I really like a nice crisp white shirt, and I consider that the most formal type of shirt and the least likely to call attention to me (the old theory being that the man should wear the clothes, the clothes should not wear the man). Even so, I wear them at work only if I have an important meeting or am going to court.

          I have a partner who was a bishop and refused to wear white shirt. His SP pushed him on it, but he pushed back and never had to change. He served the full 5 years. It doesn't matter that much to me. Some hills are worth dying on, but for me that isn't one of them.
          Last edited by LA Ute; 08-03-2009, 02:20 PM.
          “There is a great deal of difference in believing something still, and believing it again.”
          ― W.H. Auden


          "God made the angels to show His splendour - as He made animals for innocence and plants for their simplicity. But men and women He made to serve Him wittily, in the tangle of their minds."
          -- Robert Bolt, A Man for All Seasons


          "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
          --Antoine de Saint-Exupery

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          • wuapinmon
            Soul Plumber
            • Dec 2008
            • 30711

            #6
            When I was called into the branch presidency in New Orleans, they asked me to shave my beard, and I did. Now, I would tell them 'no."

            I was asked to wear a suit, and I refused. I settled on a white shirt and suit pants, but no way in hell I was ever wearing a suit again for anything other than a wedding, a funeral, or a job interview. I wore the most obnoxius-yet-compelling ties I could find in the thrift stores.

            Now, I use the boot for my heel spur as an excuse to not wear pants to Church. Since a shirt and tie with shorts looks stupid, I wear a white guayabera. I'm almost hoping that the heel spur lasts a while longer, but that's dumb.

            I do think that my change of wardrobe had a lot to do with my getting released as elders' quorum president.
            "Wuap's "problem" is that he is smart & principled & committed to a moral course of action. His actions are supposed to reflect his ethical code.
            The rest of us rarely bother to think about our actions." --Solon

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            • I.J. Reilly
              Nobody's Fool
              • Apr 2009
              • 2949

              #7
              Originally posted by wuapinmon View Post
              When I was called into the branch presidency in New Orleans, they asked me to shave my beard, and I did. Now, I would tell them 'no."

              I was asked to wear a suit, and I refused. I settled on a white shirt and suit pants, but no way in hell I was ever wearing a suit again for anything other than a wedding, a funeral, or a job interview. I wore the most obnoxius-yet-compelling ties I could find in the thrift stores.

              Now, I use the boot for my heel spur as an excuse to not wear pants to Church. Since a shirt and tie with shorts looks stupid, I wear a white guayabera. I'm almost hoping that the heel spur lasts a while longer, but that's dumb.

              I do think that my change of wardrobe had a lot to do with my getting released as elders' quorum president.
              Did I ever tell you that your injuries and ailments are part of what makes you so endearing?

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              • wuapinmon
                Soul Plumber
                • Dec 2008
                • 30711

                #8
                Originally posted by I.J. Reilly View Post
                Did I ever tell you that your injuries and ailments are part of what makes you so endearing?
                No.
                "Wuap's "problem" is that he is smart & principled & committed to a moral course of action. His actions are supposed to reflect his ethical code.
                The rest of us rarely bother to think about our actions." --Solon

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                • I.J. Reilly
                  Nobody's Fool
                  • Apr 2009
                  • 2949

                  #9
                  Originally posted by wuapinmon View Post
                  No.
                  Well, consider yourself told. Also, shorts and a tie can be a very nice combo when done right. Exhibit A:

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                  • wuapinmon
                    Soul Plumber
                    • Dec 2008
                    • 30711

                    #10
                    Originally posted by I.J. Reilly View Post
                    Well, consider yourself told. Also, shorts and a tie can be a very nice combo when done right. Exhibit A:

                    I'm a big fat man, little boy. What works for my back-in-black brothers does not look so good when stretched across this fearsome frame.
                    "Wuap's "problem" is that he is smart & principled & committed to a moral course of action. His actions are supposed to reflect his ethical code.
                    The rest of us rarely bother to think about our actions." --Solon

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                    • Hallelujah
                      Junior Member
                      • Dec 2008
                      • 2741

                      #11
                      Originally posted by wuapinmon View Post
                      When I was called into the branch presidency in New Orleans, they asked me to shave my beard, and I did. Now, I would tell them 'no."

                      I was asked to wear a suit, and I refused. I settled on a white shirt and suit pants, but no way in hell I was ever wearing a suit again for anything other than a wedding, a funeral, or a job interview. I wore the most obnoxius-yet-compelling ties I could find in the thrift stores.

                      Now, I use the boot for my heel spur as an excuse to not wear pants to Church. Since a shirt and tie with shorts looks stupid, I wear a white guayabera. I'm almost hoping that the heel spur lasts a while longer, but that's dumb.

                      I do think that my change of wardrobe had a lot to do with my getting released as elders' quorum president.
                      So let me understand. A wedding, funeral or job interview are more important (or whatever term you want to use) that Sunday worship when it comes to attire?

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                      • Mormon Red Death
                        BYU Delenda Est
                        • Nov 2008
                        • 8077

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Hallelujah View Post
                        So let me understand. A wedding, funeral or job interview are more important (or whatever term you want to use) that Sunday worship when it comes to attire?
                        yes
                        "Be a philosopher. A man can compromise to gain a point. It has become apparent that a man can, within limits, follow his inclinations within the arms of the Church if he does so discreetly." - The Walking Drum

                        "And here’s what life comes down to—not how many years you live, but how many of those years are filled with bullshit that doesn’t amount to anything to satisfy the requirements of some dickhead you’ll never get the pleasure of punching in the face." – Adam Carolla

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                        • Jarid in Cedar
                          CS Institutional Memory
                          • Jun 2009
                          • 13234

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Hallelujah View Post
                          So let me understand. A wedding, funeral or job interview are more important (or whatever term you want to use) that Sunday worship when it comes to attire?
                          And thats a problem because....

                          Maybe it is his way of standing in solidarity with the majority of the illegal aliens who cannot afford ties.
                          "The first thing I learned upon becoming a head coach after fifteen years as an assistant was the enormous difference between making a suggestion and making a decision."

                          "They talk about the economy this year. Hey, my hairline is in recession, my waistline is in inflation. Altogether, I'm in a depression."

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                          • LA Ute
                            Receiver of Memory
                            • Nov 2008
                            • 19512

                            #14
                            Originally posted by wuapinmon View Post
                            When I was called into the branch presidency in New Orleans, they asked me to shave my beard, and I did. Now, I would tell them 'no."

                            I was asked to wear a suit, and I refused. I settled on a white shirt and suit pants, but no way in hell I was ever wearing a suit again for anything other than a wedding, a funeral, or a job interview. I wore the most obnoxius-yet-compelling ties I could find in the thrift stores.

                            Now, I use the boot for my heel spur as an excuse to not wear pants to Church. Since a shirt and tie with shorts looks stupid, I wear a white guayabera. I'm almost hoping that the heel spur lasts a while longer, but that's dumb.

                            I do think that my change of wardrobe had a lot to do with my getting released as elders' quorum president.
                            Ah, yes, the guayabera, a time-honored tradition. They were everywhere in El Salvador.

                            I still like a nice, pressed white shirt now and then. As long as the collar fits.
                            “There is a great deal of difference in believing something still, and believing it again.”
                            ― W.H. Auden


                            "God made the angels to show His splendour - as He made animals for innocence and plants for their simplicity. But men and women He made to serve Him wittily, in the tangle of their minds."
                            -- Robert Bolt, A Man for All Seasons


                            "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
                            --Antoine de Saint-Exupery

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                            • Indy Coug
                              Heartless Bastard
                              • Dec 2008
                              • 18747

                              #15
                              Originally posted by HuskyFreeNorthwest View Post
                              And it made the whole experience much more enjoyable.
                              Way to live on the edge. For your next mission in reckless individualism, have a jelly sandwich without the peanut butter.
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