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Originally posted by jay santos View PostMay or may not be immodest. But regardless they can definitely be sexy.
Modesty and fashion are important in that it sends social queues to other people about what kind of a person you are. So I wouldn't want my teenage daughters dressing slutty because I wouldn't want others to assume they're slutty and treat them that way. Who defines all that? Unfortunately society does. There's no eternal principle here. It's a societal rule.
Little girls wearing sun dresses? Give me a freaking break.
In the long run, the garment design dictates what we consider to be modest, hence the nutty stuff about shoulders. If they had not changed the garment design in 1930 or so to get rid of the design that went to the ankles and wrists, I wonder if we would be dressing like this now:
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Originally posted by clackamascoug View PostPaul McCartney understood this when he wrote, "Well, she was just 17, and you know what I mean."“Not the victory but the action. Not the goal but the game. In the deed the glory.”
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Originally posted by Jeff Lebowski View PostShoulders aren't inherently sexy/immodest. That was my point. In our culture we often assume that any clothing that reveals shoulders is immodest. There was a woman in our ward that used to jog with a tanktop and many of the sisters would gossip about her being immodest. I think our LDS obsession with bare shoulders is weird.
In the long run, the garment design dictates what we consider to be modest, hence the nutty stuff about shoulders. If they had not changed the garment design in 1930 or so to get rid of the design that went to the ankles and wrists, I wonder if we would be dressing like this now:
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Nothing cuter, IMO, than my 2 year old's chubby little arms in a sun dress. Yet there are multiple families in our ward that won't allow their toddlers to wear sleeveless outfits. Boggles my mind, but I don't see much harm (other than diminishing the cute potential of the kid) in it.I'm like LeBron James.
-mpfunk
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Originally posted by jay santos View PostI don't disagree with anything. You're correlating the words sexy and immodest, which I misunderstood. Something can be modest and sexy, such as shoulders. It shouldn't be intended that a woman hide anything on her body that is sexy. Eyes can be sexy. etc."There is no creature more arrogant than a self-righteous libertarian on the web, am I right? Those folks are just intolerable."
"It's no secret that the great American pastime is no longer baseball. Now it's sanctimony." -- Guy Periwinkle, The Nix.
"Juilliardk N I ibuprofen Hyu I U unhurt u" - creekster
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Originally posted by SandYFan View PostThis is something my wife feels incredibly strongly about. [...] Any thoughts?You're actually pretty funny when you aren't being a complete a-hole....so basically like 5% of the time. --Art Vandelay
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Originally posted by pellegrino View PostI have three girls. They wear whatever they feel comfortable in. I don't envision that changing as they get older.
Today she came down dressed for school in a very tight t-shirt and tight jeans. It would have fit the Mormon Authorized Pattern but was probably not compliant with the For Strength of Youth bit about tight clothing. I thought it made her look nice and told her so.Awesomeness now has a name. Let me introduce myself.
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Originally posted by Jeff Lebowski View PostShoulders are not sexy at any age.What's to explain? It's a bunch of people, most of whom you've never met, who are just as likely to be homicidal maniacs as they are to be normal everyday people, with whom you share the minutiae of your everyday life. It's totally normal, and everyone would understand.
-Teenage Dirtbag
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I've only vetoed the clothing my daughters were wearing on a couple of occasions. (In full disclosure, their mom is probably more strict about it - meaning she has probably vetoed some stuff that I never saw.)
The only things that stand out are shirts that were a "favorite" at age 4, and which are now ratty threads that look ridiculous on an 8 year old who is trying to wear them. Or a "favorite" dress that used to go down to the knees at age 5, but is showing off panties at age 9.
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Ha.
"There is no creature more arrogant than a self-righteous libertarian on the web, am I right? Those folks are just intolerable."
"It's no secret that the great American pastime is no longer baseball. Now it's sanctimony." -- Guy Periwinkle, The Nix.
"Juilliardk N I ibuprofen Hyu I U unhurt u" - creekster
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Originally posted by Eddie View PostI've only vetoed the clothing my daughters were wearing on a couple of occasions. (In full disclosure, their mom is probably more strict about it - meaning she has probably vetoed some stuff that I never saw.)
The only things that stand out are shirts that were a "favorite" at age 4, and which are now ratty threads that look ridiculous on an 8 year old who is trying to wear them. Or a "favorite" dress that used to go down to the knees at age 5, but is showing off panties at age 9."Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance and the gospel of envy; its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill
"I only know what I hear on the news." - Dear Leader
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Originally posted by Pheidippides View PostDitto. I reserve a veto right over anything especially egregious but I've never had to exercise it. Of course my oldest is just shy of 12, so there haven't been many opportunities yet.
Today she came down dressed for school in a very tight t-shirt and tight jeans. It would have fit the Mormon Authorized Pattern but was probably not compliant with the For Strength of Youth bit about tight clothing. I thought it made her look nice and told her so.Dio perdona tante cose per un’opera di misericordia
God forgives many things for an act of mercyAlessandro Manzoni
Knock it off. This board has enough problems without a dose of middle-age lechery.
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