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  • beelzebabette
    Golf & Cubs Disrespecter
    • Nov 2008
    • 2907

    #1

    Abortion and baptism

    It's my understanding (which may turn out to have absolutely no foundation so I'm open to correction) that a past abortion is grounds for terminating a baptismal interview and running it up the chain of command. Has a woman ever been denied baptism for an abortion done for purposes of birth control?
  • Jeff Lebowski
    Corporate lackey for Jesus
    • Nov 2008
    • 69627

    #2
    Originally posted by beelzebabette View Post
    It's my understanding (which may turn out to have absolutely no foundation so I'm open to correction) that a past abortion is grounds for terminating a baptismal interview and running it up the chain of command. Has a woman ever been denied baptism for an abortion done for purposes of birth control?
    That was the policy back when I was a missionary. We had to get clearance from our mission president. I called him once and he quickly gave permission.
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    • Surfah
      Where's Wallace?
      • Nov 2008
      • 33726

      #3
      Originally posted by Jeff Lebowski View Post
      That was the policy back when I was a missionary. We had to get clearance from our mission president. I called him once and he quickly gave permission.
      I ran into it on my mission and the MP would speak to the baptismal candidate personally about the circumstances briefly. I never had the MP deny someone a baptism for having had an abortion regardless of their circumstance.
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      • beelzebabette
        Golf & Cubs Disrespecter
        • Nov 2008
        • 2907

        #4
        So, my followup question... Why ask at all?

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        • RobinFinderson
          Banned
          • Nov 2008
          • 10548

          #5
          This has come up when I conducted baptismal interviews. I would not say a word during the interview, and just wrap it up as if everything was business as usual. At the conclusion I would congratulate the baptismal candidate and say something like, "Just one more interview to go. This time you will get to meet my mission president..."

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          • Surfah
            Where's Wallace?
            • Nov 2008
            • 33726

            #6
            Originally posted by beelzebabette View Post
            So, my followup question... Why ask at all?
            Because part of the interview with the MP in my experience is so the MP could explain how grievous a sin it is and to commit them to not doing it again.
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            • Surfah
              Where's Wallace?
              • Nov 2008
              • 33726

              #7
              Originally posted by RobinFinderson View Post
              This has come up when I conducted baptismal interviews. I would not say a word during the interview, and just wrap it up as if everything was business as usual. At the conclusion I would congratulate the baptismal candidate and say something like, "Just one more interview to go. This time you will get to meet my mission president..."
              That's a very tactful way to handling a delicate issue. I wish I had been so thoughtful when I was 20.
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              • beelzebabette
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                • Nov 2008
                • 2907

                #8
                Originally posted by Surfah View Post
                Because part of the interview with the MP in my experience is so the MP could explain how grievous a sin it is and to commit them to not doing it again.
                Okay. What else is run up the chain? I know murder is. Is adultery?

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                • TripletDaddy
                  sweet triple
                  • Nov 2008
                  • 58186

                  #9
                  Originally posted by beelzebabette View Post
                  So, my followup question... Why ask at all?
                  Obviously because some circumstances could preclude baptism. Which is why the MP or higher authority gets involved in cases of abortion, murder, convicted felons, etc.
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                  • TripletDaddy
                    sweet triple
                    • Nov 2008
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                    #10
                    Originally posted by beelzebabette View Post
                    Okay. What else is run up the chain? I know murder is. Is adultery?
                    I am not sure there is some official checklist.

                    In my mission, we taught a guy that used to be a bigtime drug runner for a local coke cartel. He had killed some people in the process. He left it all behind him a few years earlier, but he was denied permission for baptism. While the MP did not explain to me the specifics, I presume some of it had to do with the fact that because of his past, unsavory people may still be looking for him and want to sever his head from his body, thus potentially bringing undue threats of danger to the small branch in which we were serving at the time.

                    There is no official baptismal question wherein we ask, "have you ever killed on behalf of a drug cartel?" nor is there a requirement that says that if a candidate was ever part of a drug cartel, the MP must be involved.

                    You take them as they come and use common sense, at least in my experience.
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                    • cowboy
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                      • Dec 2008
                      • 5740

                      #11
                      Originally posted by beelzebabette View Post
                      Okay. What else is run up the chain? I know murder is. Is adultery?
                      The big three:

                      Felony
                      Abortion
                      Homosexuality (always a fun one to ask)
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                      • il Padrino Ute
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                        • Nov 2008
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                        #12
                        Originally posted by beelzebabette View Post
                        Okay. What else is run up the chain? I know murder is. Is adultery?
                        I don't ever remember asking about adultery when I conducted an interview. Abortion and murder were the only two that I can remember asking about.
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                        • beelzebabette
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                          • Nov 2008
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                          #13
                          Originally posted by TripletDaddy View Post
                          Obviously because some circumstances could preclude baptism.
                          My apologies for missing the obvious part.

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                          • TripletDaddy
                            sweet triple
                            • Nov 2008
                            • 58186

                            #14
                            Originally posted by beelzebabette View Post
                            My apologies for missing the obvious part.
                            No problem. I am sure you really thought long and hard about why someone would ask about an abortion in a baptismal interview.
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                            • TripletDaddy
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                              • Nov 2008
                              • 58186

                              #15
                              Originally posted by il Padrino Ute View Post
                              I don't ever remember asking about adultery when I conducted an interview. Abortion and murder were the only two that I can remember asking about.
                              I don't think we did, either. At least not expressly. You kind of do because unless I am remembering correctly, don't you ask if the person understands the LOC and commits to live it, currently living it, etc?

                              I do recall asking specifically about abortion and murder, as well.
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