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  • oxcoug
    Dolphins Rape Hipsters
    • Dec 2009
    • 5309

    #1

    Deep Structure: Why non-bigots oppose gay marriage

    Below is an email I sent to friends that I think I posted on CB in the middle of Prop 8, but never got up on CUF for response. If any of you take the time to read it I expect I'll get very different responses here, as usual, than I do there.

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    An old neighbor has a crazy smart 13 year old daughter who's teacher basically asked her to go out and interview religious bigots to see how they think. So it was charming when she came to me to find out "why Mormons don't like gays." First, obviously, I told her this isn't the case and then attempted a more complete response. Below are my thoughts. I know many of you don't agree with me and that's cool.
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    There are more things in heaven and earth Horatio than are dreamt of in your philosophy

    ~ Hamlet Act 1, scene 5

    Every society has deep structure, however secular its member may think they are. Deep structure shapes norms, and without norms you would have chaos. Norms are the shared assumptions that drive people to form laws and obey them.

    Deep structure is prerational, not irrational. It rests on assumptions of how the Universe works, and what it means to be in harmony with it. No matter how secular you are, you still make basic political choices based on deep structural beliefs. If you try to remove all deep structure from public life, you can start with the Declaration of Independence, the Emancipation Proclamation, the 1964 Civil Rights Act, the right of women to vote, and the Endangered Species Act. Not something I recommend.

    Here are some examples of overlapping but distinct deep structures which some individuals or societies embrace:
    *equality before the law: no slavery, no discrimination against people based on gender, race or sexual preference
    *equality of condition: everyone should have roughly equal wealth and goods and health care, etc.
    *honesty: see Immanuel Kant
    *property: the notion that you have a right to own the fruits of your labor, and that theft is wrong
    *libertarian autonomy: I can do whatever I want with my property and my body, as long as I don't injure you
    *sanctity of human life: opposition to the death penalty and abortion: the strict Catholic position.
    *ahimsa: do no violence to any sentient being, leads to vegetarianism
    *stewardship of the earth: deep green environmentalism is a deep structure quasi religion
    *sexual morality: marriage, children and family are fundamental to societal well being. Promiscuity, adultery, prostitution and pornography are socially destructive.

    In what follows, I'll cite structure you may not agree with, but it is not any less less valid than the deep-structured claims of equality or libertarian autonomy that are so prevalent today.

    Here are a few samples of how deep structural beliefs have affected policy through history:

    "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal and that they are endowed by their Creator with certain inalienable rights..."
    The Greeks and Romans indulged homosexuality, but restricted marriage to heterosexual relationships. Were they "advanced"? Only if you're cool with slavery, on which their economic system was based. Again, deep structure.
    Environmentalists who oppose drilling in ANWR are making a pure deep structure claim--a very deep one, as no species is even injured by the proposed drilling there.

    The abolitionists who ended slavery here in the US and in England were emphatically deep structure driven.

    The humanitarian impulse and campaigns to end tragedies such as Sudan, Kosovo, Haiti, Rwanda are all deep structure.

    The equality movement, from women's rights to racial equality to gay rights is very much deep structure.

    Now here is a paradox: where does the notion of equality originate? It comes from the Judeo-Christian tradition, simply and indisputably. The Judeo-Christian God burst into recorded history 4,000 years ago with the startling notion that every single human being is of infinite worth and is viewed by his or her Creator as an end in him or herself--not merely an extra in a crazy pageant with a cast of disposable billions.

    Why does the Judeo-Christian tradition rest so heavily on the combined deep structure of equality and infinite worth? The first clue is in Genesis, where it states that man and woman were created in the "image" of God. But maybe the best clue is toward the end of the New Testament, where Paul writes, "The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ" (Romans 8:16-17).

    So Mormons (and maybe a few others in the Judeo-Christian family tree) claim equality before men and the law because we are not only created in God's image, but because we are God's children and heirs. We claim equality because each of us is of infinite worth. The short, negative framing: watch how you treat any other human being, however seemingly insignficant, because his/her Daddy can kick your ass.

    Wherever it's found, from the French Revolution to modern Communism, the notion of equality is emphatically rooted in the Bible, and especially the New Testament. Atheist egalitarians are really piggy backing on Christian deep structure unawares. But they necessarily sever the infinite worth component, leading to the weird spectacles of Revolutionary France and Soviet Communism, where individuals are murdered en masse in the name of equality. Good fun.

    I'd suggest that wherever you find equality deep structure, you either find the Judeo-Christian tradition or an undigested residue of it. Isolated from its roots in infinite worth, an atheistic argument for equality, and, indeed, for human dignity in general, is a teetering house of cards. You might remember that when Stalin and Robespierre tried this, the outcomes weren't pretty. This is where the Judeo-Christian deep structure diverges from the modern knockoffs which try to separate the notion of equality from its origins.

    Under the assumption that each individual is of infinite worth, that all are created in the image of God and are heirs of God, it is also understood that God cares very much about how we get into this world and how we get out of it. He has, it seems, very little sense of humor on these matters. Two of the ten commandments proscribe murder and adultery, and Christ later modified the latter to include even entertaining thoughts on either.

    Here is what what many followers of Judeo-Christian variants, and emphatically Mormons, take from this: sexuality and the ability to create life is a gift from God that he gives gingerly, almost reluctantly, because he values it so highly, precisely because he views each human being as having infinite worth. Because the creation of life is such a privilege, most (if not all) traditional religions are deeply attached to the idea of an institution (marriage) that sets procreation apart. There is nothing necessarily bigoted in the position. It's a defense of ground that all societies have protected for thousands of years - and the majority of the advocates aren't interested in denying any rights to anyone else, simply in preserving what they consider to be their own prerogative (currently in the state of California civil union already grants nearly every right that marriage does, this battle is primarily about the word "marriage", not the rights associated with it - and most defenders of Prop 8 willingly cede the rights connected to marriage).

    But in all of this still the paradox: the deep structure argument for equality, on which gay marriage advocates rely, is entangled at its roots with a Judeo-Christian system that insists on equality because you are of infinite worth, because you are a child of God and therefore must answer to Him for how you use His gifts and powers.

    It's immaterial to respond to all of this by saying it's deep structure, and thus has no place in public life. All public policy rests on deep structure. And it's well beyond lame to vilify and threaten those who disagree with you. The essence of democracy is that we try to persuade others to accept our structural assumptions, and we try as best we can to accommodate those expressed by the majority.

    In the medium term, I believe this is a structural debate that Mormons and Mormon allies will lose, but one where we would stand in error if we didn't attempt to protect our belief system. There seems to be a societal version of the second law of thermodynamics, and I see nothing on the immediate horizon that will reverse this trajectory. If the coalition of Prop 8 supporters ultimately lose, I'm quite certain they will try to do it with as much grace as possible - without spitting at those that defeated them through democratic processes. They will try to accommodate themselves to the degree they can, and hunker down under the remaining vestiges of first amendment religious freedom when necessary.

    But my point here is simply that it's absurd to suggest that, because the 5,000 year old deep structure they are defending is trending out of vogue, that there is something unphilosophical or hateful about it or its defenders. The idea of homosexual marriage is novel - and those that aim to defend their own beliefs in resisting its novelty are well within the bounds of civil democratic discourse. Only time will tell which side is on the side of history in its ultimate sense. In the meantime, it behooves everyone to show a little charity, patience and humility.
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  • Slim
    Straight Out the Trailer
    • Jul 2009
    • 1007

    #2
    I'd never before heard the idea that belief in human equality has it's origins in the Judeo-Christian tradition. I'll have to look into that more.

    I was also unaware that same sex marriage was a novel idea. Wikipedia says otherwise, but I'm not just going to trust that off hand either.

    Overall it is difficult for me to accept some of your premises as anything other than religious dogma but you've given me some things to think about.

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    • DapperDan
      Whut?
      • Mar 2010
      • 1132

      #3
      As I'm no expert I very well may be wrong, but I believe that historically marriage was primarily a business and political arrangement with children being more of a signatory nature to the contract. Rather than the purpose of the arrangement.

      IIRC, the Christian church didn't bother inserting itself into marriage until the third or fourth century, but the institution still retained it's core purpose of business and politics.

      I'll hazard a completely uneducated guess that the real reason homosexual marriage didn't really occur was due to the contractual nature of marriage. Without children to seal the contract and to continue the family line and be used in future political/business deals there was little business case to be made for it.

      I'm skeptical about the notion of equality tracing its origin to Judaism but I'm happy to be proven wrong.

      As for "deep-structure", that's just our culture and tradition. Both constantly change and evolve, so I don't get too hung up on either.

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      • CardiacCoug
        вот так штука
        • Nov 2008
        • 11013

        #4
        I'm pretty sure that those who defended racism could also have appealed to "Deep Structure." Racism has been a huge part of the Judeo-Christian and emphatically Mormon tradition. Same goes for anti-gay bigotry.

        This paragraph is the one that seemed to address the gay marriage issue most specifically:

        Originally posted by oxcoug View Post
        Here is what what many followers of Judeo-Christian variants, and emphatically Mormons, take from this: sexuality and the ability to create life is a gift from God that he gives gingerly, almost reluctantly, because he values it so highly, precisely because he views each human being as having infinite worth. Because the creation of life is such a privilege, most (if not all) traditional religions are deeply attached to the idea of an institution (marriage) that sets procreation apart. There is nothing necessarily bigoted in the position. It's a defense of ground that all societies have protected for thousands of years - and the majority of the advocates aren't interested in denying any rights to anyone else, simply in preserving what they consider to be their own prerogative (currently in the state of California civil union already grants nearly every right that marriage does, this battle is primarily about the word "marriage", not the rights associated with it - and most defenders of Prop 8 willingly cede the rights connected to marriage).
        The argument that marriage is about procreation is obviously a non-starter. Why the hell do we let 80-year olds or sterile people get married if it's just about procreation?

        Racial discrimination was also a "defense of ground that all societies protected for thousands of years." That doesn't make it right.

        To me, the deep structure of "equality before the law" means that gay people should be able to marry each other. It's not that complicated. And history will undoubtedly be on the side of those that agree with me.

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        • Jeff Lebowski
          Corporate lackey for Jesus
          • Nov 2008
          • 69651

          #5
          Looks like Cardiac beat me to the punch. 5000 years of tradition has never seemed like a particularly compelling argument to me. Polygamy, slavery, and subjugation of women are all biblical and all have been practiced by most societies for much of human history.

          Yes, you are correct that the simple fact that excluding gays is trending out of vogue in and of itself is not proof that the pro-traditional marriage forces are bigoted or hateful. By the same token, the longevity of a practice does not prove that it is a deep structure worth preserving or that it is devoid of bigotry
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          • PaloAltoCougar
            Semper infra dignitatem
            • Nov 2008
            • 16933

            #6
            A bit of a tangent here, but stay close to your radios tomorrow early afternoon. Judge Walker is expected to announce his decision in the case concerning Prop. 8. Nothing would surprise me, but I expect the proposition to be overturned, followed by a quick appeal to the Ninth Circuit (good luck with that), and then on the The Supremes, although that'd be at least year away, and probably two.

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            • landpoke
              Never once baby snatched
              • Nov 2008
              • 4183

              #7
              Originally posted by PaloAltoCougar View Post
              A bit of a tangent here, but stay close to your radios tomorrow early afternoon. Judge Walker is expected to announce his decision in the case concerning Prop. 8. Nothing would surprise me, but I expect the proposition to be overturned, followed by a quick appeal to the Ninth Circuit (good luck with that), and then on the The Supremes, although that'd be at least year away, and probably two.
              For once can we have a reasoned discussion about a serious topic without you threadjacking the thing? Geez.
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              • LA Ute
                Receiver of Memory
                • Nov 2008
                • 19512

                #8
                Originally posted by PaloAltoCougar View Post
                A bit of a tangent here, but stay close to your radios tomorrow early afternoon. Judge Walker is expected to announce his decision in the case concerning Prop. 8. Nothing would surprise me, but I expect the proposition to be overturned, followed by a quick appeal to the Ninth Circuit (good luck with that), and then on the The Supremes, although that'd be at least year away, and probably two.
                The trial court is going to overturn Prop 8 on Constitutional grounds. Protect Marriage will get an immediate stay while the appeal proceeds. There will be wild rejoicing in the streets and breathless news media reporting of the decision as meaning much more than it does at this point. Places like CougarBoard will go nuts with dozens of ill-informed and fiery posts denouncing the decision.

                Sigh.
                “There is a great deal of difference in believing something still, and believing it again.”
                ― W.H. Auden


                "God made the angels to show His splendour - as He made animals for innocence and plants for their simplicity. But men and women He made to serve Him wittily, in the tangle of their minds."
                -- Robert Bolt, A Man for All Seasons


                "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
                --Antoine de Saint-Exupery

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                • LA Ute
                  Receiver of Memory
                  • Nov 2008
                  • 19512

                  #9
                  Originally posted by oxcoug View Post
                  But my point here is simply that it's absurd to suggest that, because the 5,000 year old deep structure they are defending is trending out of vogue, that there is something unphilosophical or hateful about it or its defenders. The idea of homosexual marriage is novel - and those that aim to defend their own beliefs in resisting its novelty are well within the bounds of civil democratic discourse. Only time will tell which side is on the side of history in its ultimate sense. In the meantime, it behooves everyone to show a little charity, patience and humility.
                  Good luck. I haven't seen anyone yet respond to this, your point.
                  “There is a great deal of difference in believing something still, and believing it again.”
                  ― W.H. Auden


                  "God made the angels to show His splendour - as He made animals for innocence and plants for their simplicity. But men and women He made to serve Him wittily, in the tangle of their minds."
                  -- Robert Bolt, A Man for All Seasons


                  "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
                  --Antoine de Saint-Exupery

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                  • SeattleUte
                    Faith crisis consultant
                    • Nov 2008
                    • 20837

                    #10
                    Originally posted by oxcoug View Post
                    But my point here is simply that it's absurd to suggest that, because the 5,000 year old deep structure they are defending is trending out of vogue, that there is something unphilosophical or hateful about it or its defenders. The idea of homosexual marriage is novel - and those that aim to defend their own beliefs in resisting its novelty are well within the bounds of civil democratic discourse. Only time will tell which side is on the side of history in its ultimate sense. In the meantime, it behooves everyone to show a little charity, patience and humility.
                    I agree with your premise: That civilizaton is built on a system of values, and the gay marriage debate is wholly about values. Where we part company is, you assume that marriage's 5,000 year old history of limiting its beneficiaries to man/woman unions exempts gay marriage opponents from a charge of homophobia or bigotry. There is no exemption on this basis alone. On the contrary, that a system was conceived 5,000 years ago ought just much as or more easily make it automatically suspect of being at odds with our public ethos (another term to describe what you mean by "deep structure").

                    Here is the predominant ethos in America and motivating suporters of gay marriage: Empiricism or reason, and individual liberty. These are aberrant, novel concepts when viewed in the arc of human history, just like, as you note, gay marriage.

                    Slavery is a 5,000 year old institution. It has been an accepted and pervasive institution for most of the last 5,000 years. So has totalitarianism in various forms. Representative government, and a right to individual liberty, due process, etc., is a freakish exception to the norm in the last 5,000 years. Brown v. Board and the Civil Rights Act vs. Jim Crow were ultimately wholly about values. And history was all on the side of Jim Crow.

                    Here is why I think opponents of gay marriage are suspect as bigots or homophobes: To the extent they rely on 5,000 years of tradition as the sole basis for their opposition (whether or not they dress the position up in will of god jargon). Absent thought, reason, and consideration for our society's novel and aberrant (when considered in the context of 5,000 years or even, apparenlty, compated to France) ethos of partiality for liberty, oppositoin to gay marriage based upon traditoin alone or clerical edict is at war with the former values. Hence, it is bigoted and wrong.
                    When a true genius appears, you can know him by this sign: that all the dunces are in a confederacy against him.

                    --Jonathan Swift

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                    • wuapinmon
                      Soul Plumber
                      • Dec 2008
                      • 30711

                      #11
                      I'm guessing that the followers of Ahura Mazda would beg to differ about your origins of equality. Primacy and all that.
                      "Wuap's "problem" is that he is smart & principled & committed to a moral course of action. His actions are supposed to reflect his ethical code.
                      The rest of us rarely bother to think about our actions." --Solon

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                      • SeattleUte
                        Faith crisis consultant
                        • Nov 2008
                        • 20837

                        #12
                        Originally posted by wuapinmon View Post
                        I'm guessing that the followers of Ahura Mazda would beg to differ about your origins of equality. Primacy and all that.
                        I wasn't talking about origin. I was talking about relative presence or importance between representative government and liberty vs. totalitariansm and slavery in the past 5,000 years.

                        Zoroastrianism was a huge influence on Judaism during the Persian captivity. Many have attributed the later books of the OT and orientation toward a more Christian outlook to this influence. There was also the Greek universalist input or fusion with Judaism following on the heels of the Zoroastrian influence that led to Christianity. Finally, indubitably Christianity was a but for cause of the miracle of representative government and individual liberty in our latter days. Nietzsche, for one, paid Christianity this compliment in the AntiCrhist. But this process has been evolving for thousands of years. Slavery and totalitiarianism have been the norm throughout the world for most of the last 5,000 years and still are across much of the globe. Indeed, the 20th Century was all about liberty's titanic struggle against these ancient deep structures.
                        When a true genius appears, you can know him by this sign: that all the dunces are in a confederacy against him.

                        --Jonathan Swift

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                        • wuapinmon
                          Soul Plumber
                          • Dec 2008
                          • 30711

                          #13
                          Originally posted by SeattleUte View Post
                          I wasn't talking about origin. I was talking about relative presence or importance between representative government and liberty vs. totalitariansm and slavery in the past 5,000 years.

                          Zoroastrianism was a huge influence on Judaism during the Persian captivity. Many have attributed the later books of the OT and orientation toward a more Christian outlook to this influence. There was also the Greek universalist input or fusion with Judaism following on the heels of the Zoroastrian influence that led to Christianity. Finally, indubitably Christianity was a but for cause of the miracle of representative government and individual liberty in our latter days. Nietzsche, for one, paid Christianity this compliment in the AntiCrhist. But this process has been evolving for thousands of years. Slavery and totalitiarianism have been the norm throughout the world for most of the last 5,000 years and still are across much of the globe. Indeed, the 20th Century was all about liberty's titanic struggle against these ancient deep structures.
                          My comment was directed at ox...I hadn't seen yours when I clicked respond. I was trying to find a scripture in the Yasnas or Gathas to quote, but all of my notes are up on campus, hence my delay in posting.
                          "Wuap's "problem" is that he is smart & principled & committed to a moral course of action. His actions are supposed to reflect his ethical code.
                          The rest of us rarely bother to think about our actions." --Solon

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                          • LA Ute
                            Receiver of Memory
                            • Nov 2008
                            • 19512

                            #14
                            Originally posted by SeattleUte View Post
                            Here is why I think opponents of gay marriage are suspect as bigots or homophobes: To the extent they rely on 5,000 years of tradition as the sole basis for their opposition (whether or not they dress the position up in will of god jargon). Absent thought, reason, and consideration for our society's novel and aberrant (when considered in the context of 5,000 years or even, apparenlty, compated to France) ethos of partiality for liberty, oppositoin to gay marriage based upon traditoin alone or clerical edict is at war with the former values. Hence, it is bigoted and wrong.
                            When we overuse words like "bigot" or "fascist," "Nazi," or "racist," those words lose their meaning, which is a shame because we need them in the language to describe the things they actually are meant to describe. Here's the definition of "bigot:"

                            : a person obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices; especially : one who regards or treats the members of a group (as a racial or ethnic group) with hatred and intolerance
                            I think you are overusing the word in order to make your point, and in the process all you are really accomplishing is to inflame the discussion.
                            “There is a great deal of difference in believing something still, and believing it again.”
                            ― W.H. Auden


                            "God made the angels to show His splendour - as He made animals for innocence and plants for their simplicity. But men and women He made to serve Him wittily, in the tangle of their minds."
                            -- Robert Bolt, A Man for All Seasons


                            "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
                            --Antoine de Saint-Exupery

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                            • jay santos
                              Senior Member
                              • Nov 2008
                              • 13652

                              #15
                              Originally posted by CardiacCoug View Post
                              I'm pretty sure that those who defended racism could also have appealed to "Deep Structure." Racism has been a huge part of the Judeo-Christian and emphatically Mormon tradition. Same goes for anti-gay bigotry.

                              This paragraph is the one that seemed to address the gay marriage issue most specifically:



                              The argument that marriage is about procreation is obviously a non-starter. Why the hell do we let 80-year olds or sterile people get married if it's just about procreation?

                              Racial discrimination was also a "defense of ground that all societies protected for thousands of years." That doesn't make it right.

                              To me, the deep structure of "equality before the law" means that gay people should be able to marry each other. It's not that complicated. And history will undoubtedly be on the side of those that agree with me.
                              These are the same ideas that come to me when I hear the arguments against gay rights or other civil rights issues that use the same "this is the way it's always been" argument.

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