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  • #16
    Originally posted by TripletDaddy View Post
    it is probably a function of all the bankruptcies. I would imagine that is causing some stress.


    Edit: If so, Texas looks like a nice place to live.
    Last edited by Uncle Ted; 06-02-2011, 11:01 AM.
    "If there is one thing I am, it's always right." -Ted Nugent.
    "I honestly believe saying someone is a smart lawyer is damning with faint praise. The smartest people become engineers and scientists." -SU.
    "Yet I still see wisdom in that which Uncle Ted posts." -creek.
    GIVE 'EM HELL, BRIGHAM!

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    • #17
      Originally posted by RedSox View Post
      This all goes back to the fact that we have no means of self-medicating.

      I think the Church should start allowing 10 glasses of beer or wine per week. I'm only half joking. I've only had alcohol once (it was Everclear and was a great deterrent for my curiousity of alcohol as a 17-year old), but I'm convinced that my co-workers who can unwind with a cold one after a long, stressful day have superior mental health than I do b/c it offers them relief that I choose not to employ for religious reasons.
      Hear, hear!

      I get so tired hearing about the evils of alcohol. I certainly see the effects of abuse, and they can be devastating. But these are a minority of alcohol users. I know too many good people who use alcohol responsibly. They use it to connect with friends and family. Not to mention the marginal but real health benefits.

      Would it be so bad to relax the WoW on alcohol? Or for that matter, the ridiculous ban on tea and coffee?
      (I know, not going to happen...)
      "...you pointy-headed autopsy nerd. Do you think it's possible for you to post without using words like "hilarious," "absurd," "canard," and "truther"? Your bare assertions do not make it so. Maybe your reasoning is too stunted and your vocabulary is too limited to go without these epithets."
      "You are an intemperate, unscientific poster who makes light of very serious matters.”
      - SeattleUte

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      • #18
        Originally posted by Jeff Lebowski View Post
        I blame large families and a lay clergy.
        Bingo. Large families reslut in a higher cost of living and may preclude one parent from working . I'd also add, in my view, that Utah professionals earn less than other markets with comparable costs of living. Large familes and church calling require more time. So increased financial pressures + increased time pressures = more stress.
        “Not the victory but the action. Not the goal but the game. In the deed the glory.”
        "All things are measured against Nebraska." falafel

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        • #19
          Originally posted by Paperback Writer View Post
          Bingo. Large families reslut in a higher cost of living and may preclude one parent from working . I'd also add, in my view, that Utah professionals earn less than other markets with comparable costs of living. Large familes and church calling require more time. So increased financial pressures + increased time pressures = more stress.
          Yes, you guys may be on to something...



          Edit:

          Last edited by Uncle Ted; 06-02-2011, 12:47 PM.
          "If there is one thing I am, it's always right." -Ted Nugent.
          "I honestly believe saying someone is a smart lawyer is damning with faint praise. The smartest people become engineers and scientists." -SU.
          "Yet I still see wisdom in that which Uncle Ted posts." -creek.
          GIVE 'EM HELL, BRIGHAM!

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          • #20
            The direction this thread would take was as predictable as the sunrise.
            "It's true that everything happens for a reason. Just remember that sometimes that reason is that you did something really, really, stupid."

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            • #21
              Originally posted by Paperback Writer View Post
              Bingo. Large families reslut in a higher cost of living and may preclude one parent from working . I'd also add, in my view, that Utah professionals earn less than other markets with comparable costs of living. Large familes and church calling require more time. So increased financial pressures + increased time pressures = more stress.
              So, basically, our only non-prescription stress reliever is sex, which may result in more children and compound the stress.

              I'm just glad I didn't marry a "for procreation purposes only" Mormon.
              Jesus wants me for a sunbeam.

              "Cog dis is a bitch." -James Patterson

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              • #22
                Originally posted by Uncle Ted View Post
                Edit: If so, Texas looks like a nice place to live.
                This is sort of ironic in that Texas is one of the best places for a person to file chapter 7 bankruptcy (great property exemptions).
                Jesus wants me for a sunbeam.

                "Cog dis is a bitch." -James Patterson

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                • #23
                  Originally posted by Jeff Lebowski View Post
                  I blame large families and a lay clergy.
                  Regular church calling
                  Meetings associated with calling
                  Training associated with calling
                  Weekly 3 hr church attendance
                  Daily personal scripture study
                  Daily family scripture study
                  Daily personal prayer multiple times
                  Daily couples prayer
                  Daily family prayer
                  Weekly FHE
                  Weekly/monthly missionary splits
                  Feed missionaries
                  Weekly YM/YW
                  Daily seminary
                  Monthly temple attendance
                  Genealogy work
                  Monthly HT/VT
                  Scheduled service projects
                  Last minute service projects
                  Homemaking night
                  Duty to God
                  Personal Progress

                  I think it's fair to suggest that membership increases stress load.
                  Last edited by mUUser; 06-02-2011, 04:07 PM. Reason: And scouting. Let's not forget scouting.

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                  • #24
                    Originally posted by mUUser View Post
                    Regular church calling
                    Meetings associated with calling
                    Training associated with calling
                    Weekly 3 hr church attendance
                    Daily personal scripture study
                    Daily family scripture study
                    Daily personal prayer multiple times
                    Daily couples prayer
                    Daily family prayer
                    Weekly FHE
                    Weekly/monthly missionary splits
                    Feed missionaries
                    Weekly YM/YW
                    Daily seminary
                    Monthly temple attendance
                    Genealogy work
                    Monthly HT/VT
                    Scheduled service projects
                    Last minute service projects
                    Homemaking night
                    Duty to God
                    Personal Progress

                    I think it's fair to suggest that membership increases stress load.
                    I don't think that's a fair suggestion. You've listed a bunch of activities that some or many members may participate in. But I don't see why those activities necessarily increase stress. They never have in my life. Currently, I do very few of those, I used to do many more. My stress level hasn't changed.

                    And Daily Prayer is supposed to add stress? I'd guess it has the opposite effect. As would daily meditation.

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                    • #25
                      Originally posted by mUUser View Post
                      Regular church calling
                      Meetings associated with calling
                      Training associated with calling
                      Weekly 3 hr church attendance
                      Daily personal scripture study
                      Daily family scripture study
                      Daily personal prayer multiple times
                      Daily couples prayer
                      Daily family prayer
                      Weekly FHE
                      Weekly/monthly missionary splits
                      Feed missionaries
                      Weekly YM/YW
                      Daily seminary
                      Monthly temple attendance
                      Genealogy work
                      Monthly HT/VT
                      Scheduled service projects
                      Last minute service projects
                      Homemaking night
                      Duty to God
                      Personal Progress

                      I think it's fair to suggest that membership increases stress load.
                      I would add scouting in all its glorious forms: cub scouts, Weblos, and Boy Scouts. Scouting is a black hole when it comes to time. And add to that a calling like Scoutmaster that requires considerably more training. And then add to that a Bishop who holds YM leaders accountable for a YM's progress in scouting regardless of whether the YM is interested in advancing within an orginization that he (the scout) didn't necessary volunteer for or asked to be signed up in, and doesn't get parental support for (other than Mom slowing down the SUV enough in the church parking lot for the scout to get out).

                      A lot of stress can be relieved but just making it known to the membership that most or all of these programs are optional rather than essential to one's salvation. Instead LDS members are cowed in thinking that if their family doesn't participate in the full menu of LDS programs and activities that their eternal family is in jeopardy - that there will be empty seats at the celestial table.
                      “Not the victory but the action. Not the goal but the game. In the deed the glory.”
                      "All things are measured against Nebraska." falafel

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                      • #26
                        Originally posted by RedSox View Post
                        So, basically, our only non-prescription stress reliever is sex, which may result in more children and compound the stress.
                        And porn, which may result in feelings of unworthiness which compound the stress.

                        (Only semi-TIC)

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                        • #27
                          I live in Utah, I'm pretty damn stressed. Maybe i skewed the stats

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                          • #28
                            One of the biggest issues for me is that I am not supposed to work or play on Sunday, so I have one less day a week to relieve stress. That is a significant time loss.
                            "Don't expect I'll see you 'till after the race"

                            "So where does the power come from to see the race to its end...from within"

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                            • #29
                              Originally posted by mUUser View Post
                              Regular church calling
                              Meetings associated with calling
                              Training associated with calling
                              Weekly 3 hr church attendance
                              Daily personal scripture study
                              Daily family scripture study
                              Daily personal prayer multiple times
                              Daily couples prayer
                              Daily family prayer
                              Weekly FHE
                              Weekly/monthly missionary splits
                              Feed missionaries
                              Weekly YM/YW
                              Daily seminary
                              Monthly temple attendance
                              Genealogy work
                              Monthly HT/VT
                              Scheduled service projects
                              Last minute service projects
                              Homemaking night
                              Duty to God
                              Personal Progress

                              I think it's fair to suggest that membership increases stress load.
                              Freaking Eagle Projects!

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                              • #30
                                NPR reports on Utah's drug problem... The other drug problem.

                                Mormons, Forbidden From Drugs, Plagued By Prescription Drug Addiction

                                Over 60% of Utah's residents are members of the Mormon Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, a faith that forbids the use of drugs including alcohol, tobacco, coffee, and tea. Yet, Utah has one of the highest rates of prescription drug addiction in the country, with an average of 21 state residents dying from pain medication abuse each month. It's a figure that rivals, and at times overtakes, motor vehicle crash deaths.


                                The issue has had a shattering effect on the Latter-day Saints community as Mindy Vincent, a therapist at a drug recovery center in Salt Lake City, can attest. Her sister, Maline, died August of last year from prescription pain medication overuse. Reporter Andrea Smardon from KUER Radio in Salt Lake City followed the Vincent family as they continue to grieve and struggle with addiction in their family.
                                [...]
                                http://www.thetakeaway.org/story/dru...lds-community/
                                "If there is one thing I am, it's always right." -Ted Nugent.
                                "I honestly believe saying someone is a smart lawyer is damning with faint praise. The smartest people become engineers and scientists." -SU.
                                "Yet I still see wisdom in that which Uncle Ted posts." -creek.
                                GIVE 'EM HELL, BRIGHAM!

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