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  • Surfah
    Where's Wallace?
    • Nov 2008
    • 33726

    #1

    Went Out w/ the Elders Last Night

    They called at about 5pm needing someone to accompany them to teach a single sister (this rule is dumb BTW - we never had this rule). Typically I would have said no given the short notice. Also, the appointment was at 7pm and the Lakers were tipping off in Chicago at 8. So this really was a sacrifice. But I felt like I could use some good karma and said I would go.

    Our appointment is with this sister who has been investigating the church for years. This sister has also been blind since birth. We got to her house and it was dark. One of the Elders commented that she should be home because they just called to confirm. I remarked that she is blind. We all laughed. I am probably going to hell. Anyway, she was home and invited us in. She's an accordionist with an amazing operatic voice. So she played the Chipmunk's Christmas song for us on her accordion and sang along. We stood there in the pitch black. It was pretty rad. We asked if we could turn on a light and the three of us fumbled around the house in the dark with our cell phones as flash lights trying to find a light that worked. Most of her lamps and fixtures didn't even have light bulbs.

    It was a pretty good visit. I have met her a few times before. She was married to a blind guy and they used to attend church regularly. She even sang I Believe in Christ in sacrament meeting once. Now that they have divorced she's interested in the Church again. I was amazed at her memory. She recalled a ton about me and my family and asked how my siblings were by name. We had a good lesson about the atonement and mercy and justice needing to be satisfied. Our Elders are pretty decent guys and I'd let them teach my friends. This sister has the BoM in braille (6 volumes). She read in Alma as fast as I could read. It was amazing to watch her fingers fly over the pages. The only problem is that she'd keep reading as we were teaching and then she'd have other questions and comments so teaching was a bit slow and all over the place. The Elders did well though to try and keep things focused.

    She's really close to baptism and has a testimony, however her biggest obstacle is her best friend and her family. She depends on them heavily for rides and help. She has a guide dog but is weary of public transportation because of some poor experiences she's had getting around on her own. These friends don't want her to have anything to do with the Church. And she's afraid that when she is baptized they'll abandon her and she'll be without the help she's grown dependent on.

    I'm glad I went. It's been awhile since I have gone out with the Elders. The sister offered the closing prayer and asked for some sweet blessings upon my family. She was so excited to learn that Gidget was pregnant along with my two sisters whom she also remembered. This sister is very sweet.
    "Nobody listens to Turtle."
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  • FMCoug
    Senior Member
    • Nov 2008
    • 6825

    #2
    Cool story. Spending time with the missionaries, going on splits, etc. is one of the biggest things I miss here in Utah.
    "It's true that everything happens for a reason. Just remember that sometimes that reason is that you did something really, really, stupid."

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    • Art Vandelay
      Striving for mediocrity
      • Jul 2009
      • 10516

      #3
      Originally posted by Surfah View Post
      They called at about 5pm needing someone to accompany them to teach a single sister (this rule is dumb BTW - we never had this rule).
      Cool story, you are a good example Surfah. Your mission must have been very different than mine if you don't think the teaching single sisters is a good rule. We had enough problems with elders and investigators hooking up with this rule supposedly in place. The worst being one of my best friends, serving as a ZL catching an elder in bed with a divorced member (this same sister had done the under the table thigh rub of another buddy during a dinner appointment another time).

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      • Surfah
        Where's Wallace?
        • Nov 2008
        • 33726

        #4
        Originally posted by Art Vandelay View Post
        Cool story, you are a good example Surfah. Your mission must have been very different than mine if you don't think the teaching single sisters is a good rule. We had enough problems with elders and investigators hooking up with this rule supposedly in place. The worst being one of my best friends, serving as a ZL catching an elder in bed with a divorced member (this same sister had done the under the table thigh rub of another buddy during a dinner appointment another time).
        I had a companion who snuck out of our apartment at night and hooked up with a married member who lived 45 minutes away. He went home the next day, exactly 1 week, before he was to go home anyway for serving his 2 years. So our mission wasn't immune to these sort of things.
        "Nobody listens to Turtle."
        -Turtle
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        • BYUTexan
          Junior Member
          • Oct 2009
          • 52

          #5
          Originally posted by FMCoug View Post
          Cool story. Spending time with the missionaries, going on splits, etc. is one of the biggest things I miss here in Utah.
          I was a missionary in Ogden, and the members that went out on splits with us were a huge help.

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          • FMCoug
            Senior Member
            • Nov 2008
            • 6825

            #6
            Originally posted by BYUTexan View Post
            I was a missionary in Ogden, and the members that went out on splits with us were a huge help.
            No doubt. But what % of members in Utah get that opportunity vs. elsewhere. That's all I'm saying. I don't think I've ever seen missionaries attend our ward in the two years we've been here.
            "It's true that everything happens for a reason. Just remember that sometimes that reason is that you did something really, really, stupid."

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            • BYUTexan
              Junior Member
              • Oct 2009
              • 52

              #7
              Originally posted by FMCoug View Post
              No doubt. But what % of members in Utah get that opportunity vs. elsewhere. That's all I'm saying. I don't think I've ever seen missionaries attend our ward in the two years we've been here.
              I served in Clearfield, Washington Terrace, Ogden and Roy/Clinton. Each area had roughly 5-6 wards or one stake alone except for Roy/Clinton where we covered like 10 or so? Generally a stake or two. I would attend 3 sometimes 4 sac meetings each Sunday.

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              • statman
                Rabblerouser
                • Aug 2009
                • 2799

                #8
                Originally posted by BYUTexan View Post
                I served in Clearfield, Washington Terrace, Ogden and Roy/Clinton. Each area had roughly 5-6 wards or one stake alone except for Roy/Clinton where we covered like 10 or so? Generally a stake or two. I would attend 3 sometimes 4 sac meetings each Sunday.
                I think here in Lehi, one missionary companionship covers 8 or 9 stakes (~80-90 wards). And the companionship here happens to be sisters. No splits possible for the YM in our area...

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                • Surfah
                  Where's Wallace?
                  • Nov 2008
                  • 33726

                  #9
                  Just thought I'd post an update. This sister was baptized and confirmed a member this past Sunday. She bore her testimony the week before and invited the ward to her baptism herself.

                  We also had 3 other convert baptisms in the last 3 weeks and another scheduled for this Saturday.

                  I think counting this week's baptism that will make 7 convert baptisms since the new year in our ward. Pretty impressive.
                  "Nobody listens to Turtle."
                  -Turtle
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                  • The Fourth Nephite
                    Junior Member
                    • Mar 2009
                    • 781

                    #10
                    Originally posted by FMCoug View Post
                    Cool story. Spending time with the missionaries, going on splits, etc. is one of the biggest things I miss here in Utah.
                    ditto
                    "I'm going to go back to CUF now, where the censorship is less, the average IQ is higher, and we don't have to deal with so much of this nonsense. Goodbye." - SoonerCoug

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