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  • Babs
    Not a Lawyer
    • Nov 2008
    • 17128

    #1

    happy thread

    I'm going to post a happy. Too much Eeyore around here today. If anyone else has happies, feel free to join in.

    BTW, this is not a "pat me on the back" post. This is a "go out and say something nice to somebody, because BG says so" post.


    Foray to Bass Pro Shop aside, I had a cool day on Saturday. I was getting ready to leave my parents' house after visiting my dad for Fathers Day. And the woman that lives across the street, probably 45 to 50, was headed out for the evening with her husband. It was obviously for a date or to a wedding or something really nice. She was dressed in a coral skirt set and looked absolutely lovely.

    I thought perhaps I should tell her so, because women always like to hear these things, but I was across the street and carrying my 65 lb. octopus of a son, and it would have been a little awkward to shout across. Plus I don't know her at all. And by the time I put Thomas in the car they had already driven away, so it didn't matter anyway.

    But apparently they forgot something, and they pulled back up to their house as I was pulling out of the driveway. She waited in her car as her husband went back into the house. I was a ways down the street when I decided I couldn't let the opportunity pass. I stopped the car and got out and scurried back to their house and knocked on her car window, frightening the bejeesus out of her.

    She rolled down the window and I said, "I just wanted to tell you that you look beautiful this evening." She absolutely lit up. I can't describe it - you'd have to see it the difference in her face. Suddenly she looked that much more beautiful and younger, too. Then she said, "Thank you so much. SO much. That means so much to me because you're so, so....." I'm not sure what she was going to say (I think probably "young"), but I reassured her that she looked positively wonderful, and wished her a good evening. She said thank you again and was absolutely glowing as I walked back to my car.

    It made me happy to see someone so happy all the sudden. About 95% of the time I fail to act on an impulse like that, but seems like it's almost always worth it.
  • TripletDaddy
    sweet triple
    • Nov 2008
    • 58186

    #2
    Fitter. Happier. More Productive.

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    • Jeff Lebowski
      Corporate lackey for Jesus
      • Nov 2008
      • 69590

      #3
      Well done, Babs.
      "There is no creature more arrogant than a self-righteous libertarian on the web, am I right? Those folks are just intolerable."
      "It's no secret that the great American pastime is no longer baseball. Now it's sanctimony." -- Guy Periwinkle, The Nix.
      "Juilliardk N I ibuprofen Hyu I U unhurt u" - creekster

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      • wuapinmon
        Soul Plumber
        • Dec 2008
        • 30711

        #4
        DDD,

        Can you explain the animated gif to the CG-ignorant among us? Por favor.
        "Wuap's "problem" is that he is smart & principled & committed to a moral course of action. His actions are supposed to reflect his ethical code.
        The rest of us rarely bother to think about our actions." --Solon

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        • UteStar
          Sexiest Poster in Town
          • Nov 2008
          • 2419

          #5
          Originally posted by wuapinmon View Post
          DDD,

          Can you explain the animated gif to the CG-ignorant among us? Por favor.
          I will help you here. DDD is trying to say that Babs is like an ancient iron death mask with birds flying out of it.

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          • Borg
            Tour de CS 2013?
            • Dec 2008
            • 1501

            #6
            I have failed the "Happy Test" for the week.

            I too, had an "impulse" to do something nice, but failed to act on it.

            Went hiking with my girls this weekend, and on the journey down from Delicate Arch...I passed by an older man wearing a baseball hat that said: "Vietnam Veteran" on it...and some company he was in etc.

            My custom is, I try (as often as I can) to stop, and shake the hand of a veteran and thank them for serving our country, and that I appreciate them and what they have done.

            For some reason, I hesitated, and went on by without nary a word. Now, I feel guilty. I hope I just didn't kill this thread!

            Moral of the story is: ACT on those impulses. Learn from Babs, not the Borg.
            "Newton's First Law of Motion: ...things at rest tend to stay at rest. Things in motion, tend to stay in motion...."

            Hmm... Good motivation for me to remain active I guess.

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            • Fiyero
              Banned
              • Nov 2008
              • 5266

              #7
              Last Wednesday I was given a huge carrot cake, the largest size that CostCo makes. It's massive. It weighs more than BoylenOver. An entire zone could have stepped on it in an airport. For six days now I and various guests have been enjoying cake-a-rama, and there's still a full strip left.

              I think the cream cheese is starting to turn; I should have refrigerated it but wanted to keep the cake soft. Mmm.

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              • cougjunkie
                *Banned*
                • Nov 2008
                • 23223

                #8
                Originally posted by Fiyero View Post
                Last Wednesday I was given a huge carrot cake, the largest size that CostCo makes. It's massive. It weighs more than BoylenOver. An entire zone could have stepped on it in an airport. For six days now I and various guests have been enjoying cake-a-rama, and there's still a full strip left.

                I think the cream cheese is starting to turn; I should have refrigerated it but wanted to keep the cake soft. Mmm.
                I love Costco carrot cake! That is a double whammy of niceness, someone gave it to you and you shared it.
                *Banned*

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                • beelzebabette
                  Golf & Cubs Disrespecter
                  • Nov 2008
                  • 2907

                  #9
                  My nephew had his third birthday party over the weekend. If I weren't already the crappy aunt, I let his head dip under the water when he asked me to dip down while I was holding him. His mom told me later his list of things he remembered from his birthday was "a swimming party, sing 'Happy Birthday,' cake, swimming and [BBB] put me under the water, I got puzzles and a guitar..."

                  I saw him yesterday. I seem to have been forgiven.

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                  • Mrs. Funk
                    Lawyer Wannabe
                    • Nov 2008
                    • 2690

                    #10
                    My brother and sister-in-law are in town visiting the rest of the Funk clan. I've met this particular set but once, at our wedding, due to the distance. My niece has doubled her age (2 at the time, now 4).

                    When I saw her on Saturday, she walked up to me and hugged my legs, then said, "Hello, Aunt [Mrs. Funk]. It is very nice to see you."

                    Precocious, much?
                    "You know, I was looking at your shirt and your scarf and I was thinking that if you had leaned over, I could have seen everything." ~Trial Ad Judge

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                    • Non Sequitur
                      Where did I put my bodkin
                      • Nov 2008
                      • 5773

                      #11
                      The other day I saw a homeless guy peeing outside of his tattered cardboard box. I tossed him half a cruellar and a roll of duct tape to patch up the box. He told me to fuck off, but I'm pretty sure that in his heart he appreciated the gesture.
                      "The mind is not a boomerang. If you throw it too far it will not come back." ~ Tom McGuane

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                      • Goatnapper'96
                        Senior Member
                        • Nov 2008
                        • 10920

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Non Sequitur View Post
                        The other day I saw a homeless guy peeing outside of his tattered cardboard box. I tossed him half a cruellar and a roll of duct tape to patch up the box. He told me to fuck off, but I'm pretty sure that in his heart he appreciated the gesture.
                        Jack is so much better uncensored. LOL!
                        Do Your Damnedest In An Ostentatious Manner All The Time!
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                        I'm choosing to mostly ignore your fatuity here and instead overwhelm you with so much data that you'll maybe, just maybe, realize that you have reams to read on this subject before you can contribute meaningfully to any conversation on this topic.
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                        • myboynoah
                          Senior Member
                          • Nov 2008
                          • 21719

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Non Sequitur View Post
                          The other day I saw a homeless guy peeing outside of his tattered cardboard box. I tossed him half a cruellar and a roll of duct tape to patch up the box. He told me to fuck off, but I'm pretty sure that in his heart he appreciated the gesture.
                          That's good stuff.
                          Give 'em Hell, Cougars!!!

                          For all this His anger is not turned away, but His hand is stretched out still.

                          Not long ago an obituary appeared in the Salt Lake Tribune that said the recently departed had "died doing what he enjoyed most—watching BYU lose."

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                          • cowboy
                            Homer Weems
                            • Dec 2008
                            • 5740

                            #14
                            Originally posted by The Borg View Post
                            I have failed the "Happy Test" for the week.

                            I too, had an "impulse" to do something nice, but failed to act on it.

                            Went hiking with my girls this weekend, and on the journey down from Delicate Arch...I passed by an older man wearing a baseball hat that said: "Vietnam Veteran" on it...and some company he was in etc.

                            My custom is, I try (as often as I can) to stop, and shake the hand of a veteran and thank them for serving our country, and that I appreciate them and what they have done.

                            For some reason, I hesitated, and went on by without nary a word. Now, I feel guilty. I hope I just didn't kill this thread!

                            Moral of the story is: ACT on those impulses. Learn from Babs, not the Borg.
                            On the way home from meetings last night I stopped by our neighbor's house. His wife of 61 years just passed away. We talked for ten or fifteen minutes, and he told me how it didn't seem real, and how he knew it was coming but still didn't expect it. He told me stories about taking his granddaughter fishing, then told me some fascinating stories about his time as an airborne engineer in WWII.

                            I left a better person. I hadn't really wanted to stop; my whole family was sick, and I hadn't seen much of them so I just wanted to get home before bedtime. But I stopped, and I was glad I did. My wife understood completely when I walked in twenty minutes late.
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                            • Babs
                              Not a Lawyer
                              • Nov 2008
                              • 17128

                              #15
                              Originally posted by cowboy View Post
                              On the way home from meetings last night I stopped by our neighbor's house. His wife of 61 years just passed away. We talked for ten or fifteen minutes, and he told me how it didn't seem real, and how he knew it was coming but still didn't expect it. He told me stories about taking his granddaughter fishing, then told me some fascinating stories about his time as an airborne engineer in WWII.

                              I left a better person. I hadn't really wanted to stop; my whole family was sick, and I hadn't seen much of them so I just wanted to get home before bedtime. But I stopped, and I was glad I did. My wife understood completely when I walked in twenty minutes late.
                              yay!

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