Same sex attraction--serious question

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  • jay santos
    Senior Member
    • Nov 2008
    • 13652

    #1

    Same sex attraction--serious question

    Would an effeminate male and butch lesbian be attracted to each other? If not, why not? The broadcast yesterday made me think of this.
  • woot
    Resident Science Cop
    • Nov 2008
    • 5531

    #2
    Originally posted by jay santos View Post
    Would an effeminate male and butch lesbian be attracted to each other? If not, why not? The broadcast yesterday made me think of this.
    This can't be a serious question.

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    • CardiacCoug
      вот так штука
      • Nov 2008
      • 11013

      #3
      Originally posted by jay santos View Post
      Would an effeminate male and butch lesbian be attracted to each other? If not, why not? The broadcast yesterday made me think of this.
      I can think of a few examples of couples that fit this description.

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      • filsdepac
        No pun intended
        • May 2009
        • 1823

        #4
        Originally posted by woot View Post
        This can't be a serious question.
        It's not, it's a seious one. And if you don't know what that is...

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        • jay santos
          Senior Member
          • Nov 2008
          • 13652

          #5
          Originally posted by woot View Post
          This can't be a serious question.
          It seems in a gay relationship a lot of times there is a male type and a female type. So why wouldn't effeminate gay male (looking for masculine type) be attracted to butch lesbian (usually attracted to female type).

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          • jay santos
            Senior Member
            • Nov 2008
            • 13652

            #6
            Evidence: Pam Ward flirting so shamelessly on air with Danny Kanell.

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            • wuapinmon
              Soul Plumber
              • Dec 2008
              • 30711

              #7
              Because some people only like penises. qed

              seiously
              "Wuap's "problem" is that he is smart & principled & committed to a moral course of action. His actions are supposed to reflect his ethical code.
              The rest of us rarely bother to think about our actions." --Solon

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              • filsdepac
                No pun intended
                • May 2009
                • 1823

                #8
                Originally posted by jay santos View Post
                It seems in a gay relationship a lot of times there is a male type and a female type. So why wouldn't effeminate gay male (looking for masculine type) be attracted to butch lesbian (usually attracted to female type).
                Are you attracted to effeminate men?

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                • Portland Ute
                  Junior Member
                  • Dec 2008
                  • 5647

                  #9
                  Originally posted by wuapinmon View Post
                  Because some people only like penises. qed

                  seiously
                  <shudder>

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                  • Non Sequitur
                    Where did I put my bodkin
                    • Nov 2008
                    • 5773

                    #10
                    Originally posted by filsdepac View Post
                    Are you attracted to effeminate men?
                    I have a friend who only dates tall, athletic, mannish women. He's not gay, but he is definitely conflicted. I don't think there's an easy answer to what causes one person to be sexually attracted to another, but I know enough gay people to know that it's not just about genitalia.
                    "The mind is not a boomerang. If you throw it too far it will not come back." ~ Tom McGuane

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                    • DU Ute
                      RIP CUF
                      • Dec 2008
                      • 7393

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Portland Ute View Post
                      <shudder>
                      Your wife must disgust you. It must be hard being married to someone who finds men attractive.
                      "In conclusion, let me give a shout-out to dirty sex. What a great thing it is" - Northwestcoug
                      "And you people wonder why you've had extermination orders issued against you." - landpoke
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                      • Portland Ute
                        Junior Member
                        • Dec 2008
                        • 5647

                        #12
                        Originally posted by DU Ute View Post
                        Your wife must disgust you. It must be hard being married to someone who finds men attractive.
                        Plenty of people love haggis, or vegemite or liver.

                        I don't like it for me.

                        The thought of any of those in my mouth makes me shudder.

                        I'm not disgusted if my wife wants any of those in her mouth, though.

                        Same goes for a penis.

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                        • oxcoug
                          Dolphins Rape Hipsters
                          • Dec 2009
                          • 5309

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Portland Ute View Post
                          Plenty of people love haggis, or vegemite or liver.

                          I don't like it for me.

                          The thought of any of those in my mouth makes me shudder.

                          I'm not disgusted if my wife wants any of those in her mouth, though.

                          Same goes for a penis.

                          Vegemite in my mouth - acceptable. Penis - not so much.
                          Ute-ī sunt fīmī differtī

                          It can't all be wedding cake.

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                          • Portland Ute
                            Junior Member
                            • Dec 2008
                            • 5647

                            #14
                            Originally posted by oxcoug View Post
                            Vegemite in my mouth - acceptable. Penis - not so much.
                            <Shudder>

                            Have you tasted vegemite?

                            Neither are acceptable to me.

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                            • DapperDan
                              Whut?
                              • Mar 2010
                              • 1132

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Portland Ute View Post
                              <Shudder>

                              Have you tasted vegemite?

                              Neither are acceptable to me.
                              I'm going to go ahead and ignore the obvious conclusion.

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