Have you ever turned down Sex from someone other than your spouse?

[PaloAltoCougar]

My favorite moment of temptation and great character came just outside SF's Fairmont Hotel in the evening following a CLE presentation. As I approached a street corner on my way home, I saw a stunningly attractive woman but then I averted my gaze (I don't like the pervy approach of staring down women). But as I was waiting to cross at the intersection, the woman sidled up next to me and whispered in my ear, "Would you like some company this evening?" I was surprised, but instantly responded, "Uh, no thanks, I've got to get home."

During the long drive home, I was feeling pretty full of myself, proud that I had been as Joseph with Potiphar's wife, and prouder still that such a beautiful woman (this was no ordinary hooker) would be interested in my doughy middle-aged bod. And then I realized the only pants bulge in which she was interested was my wallet.

[wuapinmon]

What if she wasn't my spouse at the time the proposition was made?



and if ever a thread belonged in THE BEDROOM, this one is it.

[Fiyero]

Do they have to be explicitly verbal, or do these two count?

http://cougaruteforum.com/showpost.p...7&postcount=19

[wuapinmon]

Wait, the poll says, "the serpent beguilded me," so are we counting oral sex as "sex?" And do you have to give and receive for it to count, or is one side enough, because the poll question is phrased as to indicate the former?

[SeattleUte]

I wasn't sure where to put this thread, but decided on the foyer since chastity and theology are so closely related for most of us.

I think one of the interesting things about the Tiger sex fiasco is the apples and oranges (A really stupid saying by the way. Aren't apples and oranges actually very close to the same thing? Round, fruit, sweet, same size. I digress) compared to the average guy. How frequently does a married, or even single guy have women approach them and in no uncertain terms announce they want to have sex? I've seen this happen to exactly one person in my whole life, my best friend growing up. Unfortunately it led to some problems in his youth and probably not coincidentally he is on his 3rd marriage. I realize Tiger put himself in situations where this could occur and he obviously didn't say no, at least 15 times. I'm just saying it seems infinitely harder for a athlete or rock star to continually turn down advances than it is for the average schmuck to lose his ring and go search for companionship. Its one thing not to rob a bank, its another to find an unmarked bag of money lying around and not pocket it.

Sport, I can tell you're not experienced in such matters. You needed to set up the poll so people could select more than once choice. Some people can say yes to more than one of these (or so I've heard).

[creekster]

When I was in Law School I used ot work at a combo cookie store and burrito stand (it was indeed odd) between marekt and Union Square in San francisco. I worked nights closing up at 2 am. Between midnight and 2am on weekdays it was usually me, my co-worker and a few homless people and some hookers. Most fo the hookers were about as appealing as the bottom of your shoe and their demeanors ranged from very bawdy and crude to dangerous and angry. One in particaulr, however, was different and I felt very sorry for.

She was young and attractive and a mother who obviously had a bad drug habit. She used ot come in and order a cup of coffee and 1/2 a cookie becasue she couldnt risk getting fat. We didnt sell 1/2 cookies so I used to give her the 1/2 cookie for free from our unsaleable disfigured pile. She would talk non-stop about her kid and how much she missed him when she was 'working' etc. It used to make me very sad. Anyway, after a few weeks of me lsitneing to her prattle on, one night she told me: ""I really like to talk to you becasue you listen to what I say and you never ask me for anything. You're too nice of a guy to ask, but if you ever want me to put out for you, just say so, and it will always be free." Or owrds to that effect. I had zero interest in her, but even though it was the strangest proposal I ever recevied it seemed sort of touching.

She suddenyl stopped coming in to the place. I asked one of the other hookers what happened to her and she said she thought she had been killed, but the hookers were notoriousy unreliable so I have no idea if any of it was true.

I will share some mroe stories from that place when someone starts a thread about cleaning up body fluids from drunks, junkies and homeless people after clsoing time. Blecchhh.

[Coach McGuirk]

I have turned down better than sex cake more than I care to remember. Take that Satan.

[wuapinmon]

Dear Penthouse Forum,

You're not going to believe what happened to me last week. I'm the LDS Bishop of the Morningside 178th Ward, Fruit Heights Utah Stake, and I had an appointment with a sister for an "interview." As she requested the interview, I had no idea what she wanted to see me about. She had moved into my ward about 3 months ago, was recently divorced, and had started a job as an aerobics instructor at a gym here in town. She was definitely not a "special spirit," if you know what I mean, and all the young men in the ward were getting stern looks from me when they would lean over and stare while she took the sacrament from the tray. Anyway, when she came into my office, my heart skipped a beat. I'm happily married, but I'm not blind............

Cuidado, obispo.

[Jeff Lebowski]

I have turned down better than sex cake more than I care to remember. Take that Satan.

Ha. There is no such thing.

[Babs]

Ha. There is no such thing.

depends on the recipe and the chef, I imagine.

[SeattleUte]

When I was in Law School I used ot work at a combo cookie store and burrito stand (it was indeed odd) between marekt and Union Square in San francisco. I worked nights closing up at 2 am. Between midnight and 2am on weekdays it was usually me, my co-worker and a few homless people and some hookers. Most fo the hookers were about as appealing as the bottom of your shoe and their demeanors ranged from very bawdy and crude to dangerous and angry. One in particaulr, however, was different and I felt very sorry for.

She was young and attractive and a mother who obviously had a bad drug habit. She used ot come in and order a cup of coffee and 1/2 a cookie becasue she couldnt risk getting fat. We didnt sell 1/2 cookies so I used to give her the 1/2 cookie for free from our unsaleable disfigured pile. She would talk non-stop about her kid and how much she missed him when she was 'working' etc. It used to make me very sad. Anyway, after a few weeks of me lsitneing to her prattle on, one night she told me: ""I really like to talk to you becasue you listen to what I say and you never ask me for anything. You're too nice of a guy to ask, but if you ever want me to put out for you, just say so, and it will always be free." Or owrds to that effect. I had zero interest in her, but even though it was the strangest proposal I ever recevied it seemed sort of touching.

She suddenyl stopped coming in to the place. I asked one of the other hookers what happened to her and she said she thought she had been killed, but the hookers were notoriousy unreliable so I have no idea if any of it was true.

I will share some mroe stories from that place when someone starts a thread about cleaning up body fluids from drunks, junkies and homeless people after clsoing time. Blecchhh.

Too prolix. Can somebody give me the short story?

[YOhio]

Too prolix. Can somebody give me the short story?

creekster turned down free sex from a prostitute.

[wuapinmon]

creekster turned down free sex from a prostitute.

But she had a heart of gold.

[statman]

I worked for Citi during the transition when they bought the Sears credit card portfolio (~$30 billion in receivables). The transition from Sears to Citi took about 8 or 9 months - constant flow of Citi people, computer systems people, laywers, consultants, various data vendors, etc. in total, a ~ a hundred people, all involved in one aspect of the sale/transition or another - but most had no interaction with the others - they people there for Citi/Sears sale were mostly anonymous to each other.

Most traveled in from out of town and most stayed at the Marriott right next to Sears' main campus. Also, there was the more or less constant large number of vendors trying to sell stuff at Sears - unrelated to the sale of the credit card to Citi. Sears just attracted a whole lot of business travelers.

The restaurant and lounge at the Marriott was pretty much like a college kegger every Monday - Wednesday night for that eight or nine months. Lots of room keys were exchanged - and those involved with it were pretty open about it. I'd guess that probably 1/2 of the ones involved were married. These were one night hook-ups, not traveling relationships. Kind of sad, really. It definitely had a Tiger-Woodsy-feel to it. It creeped me out...

[pellegrino]

I'm a "never." How would you even get in that situation? Seriously, if anyone knows....

Believe me, some don't "get themselves into it."