Sadly, it seems that any looking at pornography is considered addiction.
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Originally posted by wuapinmon View PostSadly, it seems that any looking at pornography is considered addiction.
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Originally posted by Goatnapper'96 View PostBut if you like looking at midgets dressed like Star Wars storm troopers putting metal pipes up their anal orifice while gently walking a gerbil into your ass with the help of a large bic lighter, that doesn't strike me as normal and perhaps one might hesitate to send such a prospective missionary into the mission field. But that might just be me."...you pointy-headed autopsy nerd. Do you think it's possible for you to post without using words like "hilarious," "absurd," "canard," and "truther"? Your bare assertions do not make it so. Maybe your reasoning is too stunted and your vocabulary is too limited to go without these epithets."
"You are an intemperate, unscientific poster who makes light of very serious matters.”
- SeattleUte
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Originally posted by Goatnapper'96 View PostBut if you like looking at midgets dressed like Star Wars storm troopers putting metal pipes up their anal orifice while gently walking a gerbil into your ass with the help of a large bic lighter, that doesn't strike me as normal and perhaps one might hesitate to send such a prospective missionary into the mission field. But that might just be me.
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What would The Foyer be these days without sex or politics?
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Before I married, I was watching some TV show with my roommate. My fiancee came over and started to watch it. Then some scene with bikini babes showed up, and my roommate and I did the whistle thing. We didn't turn it off and thought it was funny. My fiancee was not amused. Afterwards, she said she was disappointed in me that I didn't leave immediately.
I was floored. At that time I would have never called that scene pornography. But the visceral reaction she had towards it set the stage for the definition of pornography for the next 15+ years of our marriage. I remember one EQ lesson I was teaching about pornography. I came up with a definition that I was pretty proud of: pornography is anything that gets your heart racing. And I kind of ran with that definition. It was bolstered by my wife and the church.
Needless to say, that caused an immediate problem. I liked looking at scantily clad women. And since by my definition that was pornography, I felt bad about it. Not bad enough to completely stop, but it was pretty guilt inducing. Of course the couple of times that I confessed to my wife she was devastated. Accusations of breaking temple covenants flew, and I vowed to never hurt my wife like that again. But of course it happened again from time to time, and I just never confessed again.
Happily we have now come to a more healthy view of human sexuality. She understands what turns me on turns most males on. Not that we watch porn together, but I can honestly comment on a picture or video and not fear that she will be devastated. But I haven't brought up gerbils...
Anyways, I say this because like has been said before, there is no adequate global definition of pornography. Sure there are abuses and addictions of what most would call unhealthy. But I suspect that if the church had its way, it would gladly coopt my definition of ~15 years ago, that it's anything that gets the heart racing. And outside of the church, most people would call that very unhealthy."...you pointy-headed autopsy nerd. Do you think it's possible for you to post without using words like "hilarious," "absurd," "canard," and "truther"? Your bare assertions do not make it so. Maybe your reasoning is too stunted and your vocabulary is too limited to go without these epithets."
"You are an intemperate, unscientific poster who makes light of very serious matters.”
- SeattleUte
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Originally posted by Northwestcoug View PostI came up with a definition that I was pretty proud of: pornography is anything that gets your heart racing. And I kind of ran with that definition. It was bolstered by my wife and the church.
However, dropping a putt for birdie nowdays would be classified as porn.
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Originally posted by Goatnapper'96 View PostI don't know if your Bishop would, but I would likely agree with you. But that is mostly because I know of you insatiable appetite for intellectual commentary with a liberal bend. Obviously, you would be reading the articles.“Not the victory but the action. Not the goal but the game. In the deed the glory.”
"All things are measured against Nebraska." falafel
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Originally posted by Northwestcoug View PostAnd outside of the church, most people would call that very unhealthy."Yeah, but never trust a Ph.D who has an MBA as well. The PhD symbolizes intelligence and discipline. The MBA symbolizes lust for power." -- Katy Lied
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Originally posted by byu71 View PostWow, by that definition something that was porn to me 20 years ago is no longer porn.
However, dropping a putt for birdie nowdays would be classified as porn.
I should say that back then I meant that any picture/video/whatever of women that got your heart racing was pornography. It's an extreme definition. But reading FTSOTY and other church manuals I suspect leaders would love members to adopt it."...you pointy-headed autopsy nerd. Do you think it's possible for you to post without using words like "hilarious," "absurd," "canard," and "truther"? Your bare assertions do not make it so. Maybe your reasoning is too stunted and your vocabulary is too limited to go without these epithets."
"You are an intemperate, unscientific poster who makes light of very serious matters.”
- SeattleUte
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Originally posted by Northwestcoug View PostHmm, that could become an addiction. Check yourself, BYU71.
I should say that back then I meant that any picture/video/whatever of women that got your heart racing was pornography. It's an extreme definition. But reading FTSOTY and other church manuals I suspect leaders would love members to adopt it.“Not the victory but the action. Not the goal but the game. In the deed the glory.”
"All things are measured against Nebraska." falafel
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Originally posted by Paperback Writer View PostAnd then the church would be left with an all-female missionary force because all teenage men would be classified as porn addicts."...you pointy-headed autopsy nerd. Do you think it's possible for you to post without using words like "hilarious," "absurd," "canard," and "truther"? Your bare assertions do not make it so. Maybe your reasoning is too stunted and your vocabulary is too limited to go without these epithets."
"You are an intemperate, unscientific poster who makes light of very serious matters.”
- SeattleUte
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