Anyway, the roommate gets back from her confession with the bishop. (I heard this from my friend, not the porn consuming roommate, so I don't know what her state of mind was.) She got no discipline. Nothing. Not even a suggestion to stop taking the sacrament.
When she confessed, she broke down and cried and said that because she was so unattractive, she had no hopes of getting married, so she would never know what a physical relationship between a man and a woman would be like, and porn movies were the only way she could satisfy her curiosity. It was the closest she would ever get to having sex with a real husband. And why couldn't she have a husband? It was promised in her patriarchal blessing that she would be married with many, many children, but no priesthood holder wanted to date her. She was a worthy temple rec holder, why can't she get eternal temple blessings from marriage?
That was it. Nothing was said about how she probably wasn't a recommend holder at that moment. Nothing about how if she were curious, why didn't she just watch one movie? Why 3 movies a night for 3 months? No counseling about how porn does not depict a loving relationship between two worthy people striving for exaltation. No details demanded of her about exactly what type of porn she was watching. Just "Dont do it again."
Would an RM man in his middle 20s get the same treatment?