As I've mentioned before, I teach in the primary. I also live in an incredibly homogenous ward. There are a ton of people that are the same exact age as my wife and I and there are a lot of children in the ward. In the 4-5 year old range (kids born in 2004), there are literally 20 active kids. There are a few kids that have older teenage siblings, but not many. Most of the parents are in their late 20s through mid to late 30s. What this means, is that I have a lot of experience with these names.
What always seems to amaze me is the "what the hell, let's look for a last name that sounds cool or we can just make something up and piece together a few cool sounding syllables" influence. My brother didn't even scratch the surface. There's a kid in my class named Becker. I'm not kidding you. Somehow it didn't dawn on the parents that from the minute a kid at school learns the word pecker, Becker will be teased relentlessly. There's a Kelton. There's a Bitner. I believe there are both boy and girl Braxtons.
When my wife got pregnant, we narrowed down our list of boys and girls names to three on each side. Given how horrendous the last bad naming trend went (the WWII generation) and my grandmothers having siblings with following names: Afton, Alta, Louella, Bertha, Golda and Seymour- we decided not to get caught up with the trend- but one of the names for a boy we had on our list that was somewhat trendy earned the derision of my father. Owen was the name. When I told my dad about it, he basically said "Are you kidding me, that's the name of the guy from Hee-Haw. Why the hell would you do that to your kid."
On an interesting note, I don't think I've seen a single Emily in our primary of many kids. Apparently, between all the Adysons, Rileys, Camris and Braxtons, there's no room for an Emily, or Sara, or Rachel or Rebecca.
What always seems to amaze me is the "what the hell, let's look for a last name that sounds cool or we can just make something up and piece together a few cool sounding syllables" influence. My brother didn't even scratch the surface. There's a kid in my class named Becker. I'm not kidding you. Somehow it didn't dawn on the parents that from the minute a kid at school learns the word pecker, Becker will be teased relentlessly. There's a Kelton. There's a Bitner. I believe there are both boy and girl Braxtons.
When my wife got pregnant, we narrowed down our list of boys and girls names to three on each side. Given how horrendous the last bad naming trend went (the WWII generation) and my grandmothers having siblings with following names: Afton, Alta, Louella, Bertha, Golda and Seymour- we decided not to get caught up with the trend- but one of the names for a boy we had on our list that was somewhat trendy earned the derision of my father. Owen was the name. When I told my dad about it, he basically said "Are you kidding me, that's the name of the guy from Hee-Haw. Why the hell would you do that to your kid."
On an interesting note, I don't think I've seen a single Emily in our primary of many kids. Apparently, between all the Adysons, Rileys, Camris and Braxtons, there's no room for an Emily, or Sara, or Rachel or Rebecca.
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