Seriously, she's embarrassing herself more than she is her husband.
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Originally posted by SeattleUte View Postdiscreet."In conclusion, let me give a shout-out to dirty sex. What a great thing it is" - Northwestcoug
"And you people wonder why you've had extermination orders issued against you." - landpoke
"Can't . . . let . . . foolish statements . . . by . . . BYU fans . . . go . . . unanswered . . . ." - LA Ute
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Originally posted by PaloAltoCougar View PostNotice that in response to a comment that a reader feels embarrassed for her husband, the husband chimed in immediately, assuring everyone he's fine with the blog and is not humiliated by having his "deviant sexual behaviors" [her words, including the plural] made public.
He says that "The only way to change that is to put a face to it, which my wife made the hard decision to do."
Bless 'em both, and I hope they work through this, but I couldn't disagree more with the premise.
Good luck, Anonymous Bethany in Arizona and good luck Anonymous porn-addict husband most likely working at Big 4 accounting firm in Phoenix, married to a woman named Bethany and has 4 kids. Hopefully, putting a face to this will prove admirable to your employers and will accelerate your career advancement.Fitter. Happier. More Productive.
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Originally posted by DU Ute View PostI don't see why you are all freaking out about her going public with this. She didn't use her last name! Very discrete!
For what it is worth, a family member was exed (or disfellowshipped? I can't remember) over stuff similar to this.
It started out with the pr0n but ended up with he and a work buddy getting blowjobs from 'exotic dancers' on a fairly regular basis. He had to go through some serious counseling and therapy. Apparently the therapy is psychologically more intense than drug rehab (but without the physical/pharmacological aspects).
Part of the rehab was he had to tell everybody in the family that he was exed, what he did (minus the details), etc. He still went to church every week and did everything, but was no longer a member.
After he was 'sober' for a few years he got his wife a boob job. I think that solved all of the remaining problems.
So, I wonder out loud but thinking rhetorically, how many of these 'problems' could be eliminated by having our wives learn to give a proper blowjob?
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I find that blog, and that post, downright appalling.“There is a great deal of difference in believing something still, and believing it again.”
― W.H. Auden
"God made the angels to show His splendour - as He made animals for innocence and plants for their simplicity. But men and women He made to serve Him wittily, in the tangle of their minds."
-- Robert Bolt, A Man for All Seasons
"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
--Antoine de Saint-Exupery
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Originally posted by NorthwestUteFan View Post
It started out with the pr0n but ended up with he and a work buddy getting blowjobs from 'exotic dancers' on a fairly regular basis. He had to go through some serious counseling and therapy. Apparently the therapy is psychologically more intense than drug rehab (but without the physical/pharmacological aspects).
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Originally posted by DU Ute View PostI don't see why you are all freaking out about her going public with this. She didn't use her last name! Very discreet!The night he told me about his addiction, I called my mom. We ended up telling his family, and eventually, we knew we’d have to tell close family and friends.
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Originally posted by RC Vikings View PostIt's already out there. Why the need to tell everyone?Give 'em Hell, Cougars!!!
For all this His anger is not turned away, but His hand is stretched out still.
Not long ago an obituary appeared in the Salt Lake Tribune that said the recently departed had "died doing what he enjoyed most—watching BYU lose."
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To sort of echo what has already been said, what kind of C word takes it upon herself to pick up the phone and spill their deepest personal shit to everyone within earshot:
"The night he told me about his addiction, I called my mom. We ended up telling his family, and eventually, we knew we’d have to tell close family and friends."
Bitch, STFU. Way to make the Holidays extra comfortable.
On the other hand:
" There is a stigma attached to a man who struggles with pornography addiction. People think they’re weirdoes or perverts. I want to change that perception."
Okay, great sentiment. Why don't you start with yourself?*
*In all fairness, maybe he was banging midget amputees or something and she was heavily traumatized to the point where she became afflicted with some grievous form of Tourettes' that makes you compulsively share embarrassing, intimate, boundary-crossing information with valued acquaintances."I'm anti, can't no government handle a commando / Your man don't want it, Trump's a bitch! I'll make his whole brand go under,"
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Originally posted by Commando View PostBitch, STFU. Way to make the Holidays extra comfortable.
*In all fairness, maybe he was banging midget amputees or something and she was heavily traumatized to the point where she became afflicted with some grievous form of Tourettes' that makes you compulsively share embarrassing, intimate, boundary-crossing information with valued acquaintances.
Horrible blog, that guy must suffer from some serious self-loathing to go along with all this. Repentance is one thing, but having this all aired to family, friend, and everyone with a computer is a bit much.
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While many may be rightfully disturbed by the blog, the vulgarity is not at all appropriate here. Let's keep it under control.Give 'em Hell, Cougars!!!
For all this His anger is not turned away, but His hand is stretched out still.
Not long ago an obituary appeared in the Salt Lake Tribune that said the recently departed had "died doing what he enjoyed most—watching BYU lose."
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Age 31
Married 10 years
Yikes!
I'm sure there is some segment of LDS women who need this kind of reassurance that they are not the only ones in porn-filled marraiges, but holy smokes there are better ways of going about it than this."They're good. They've always been good" - David Shaw.
Well, because he thought it was good sport. Because some men aren't looking for anything logical, like money. They can't be bought, bullied, reasoned, or negotiated with. Some men just want to watch the world burn.
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The women of the church have just as much of a problem with porn as the men. It's just a very different sort of problem. Forget what she wanted or her level of forgiveness; I would have dropped her like a hot potato on the spot for that abomination.Awesomeness now has a name. Let me introduce myself.
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Man. How embarrassing. The blog, the story, the reaction. Everything. That whole thing made me feel awkward and uncomfortable, like the way a horrible musical number does.
I have to believe that there were additional things going on to warrant an excommunication. I refuse to believe otherwise for my own sanity."Nobody listens to Turtle."-Turtlesigpic
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