This is something my wife feels incredibly strongly about. See this link for an overview (and I apologize if this has been discussed to death):
http://www.feministmormonhousewives....nd-the-spirit/
I am not sure where I stand here. On the one hand, I do agree that the only people who think a 6-year-old in a tank top is sexually attractive are pedophiles. On the other hand, there are definitely pedophiles out there.
And on one hand, I get that pre-teens really shouldn't have to worry about modesty, but I understand how learning these principles at age 7 makes it easier when you're age 17.
And on the final hand, I'm a dude (as has been previously stated). In the same way I don't feel comfortable judging women who breastfeed in public (thanks, CB), I don't feel comfortable judging the worthiness of a female (especially a minor) on how she's dressed. It feels creepy.
To top it off, we welcomed a new addition to our family back in February, and she happens to be a little girl. So I kind of feel like I need to figure it out pretty soon.
Any thoughts?
http://www.feministmormonhousewives....nd-the-spirit/
We are telling our babies to think about their bodies, and to think about covering them up, and to feel guilty for wanting to wear an Orange Tank Top because they might encourage sexual attention from others.
What?
Our babies should never feel guilty for encouraging sexual attraction (of sickos). They literally can not purposefully “encourage” something they don’t want and don’t understand. But that is what “immodest” means.
What?
Our babies should never feel guilty for encouraging sexual attraction (of sickos). They literally can not purposefully “encourage” something they don’t want and don’t understand. But that is what “immodest” means.
And on one hand, I get that pre-teens really shouldn't have to worry about modesty, but I understand how learning these principles at age 7 makes it easier when you're age 17.
And on the final hand, I'm a dude (as has been previously stated). In the same way I don't feel comfortable judging women who breastfeed in public (thanks, CB), I don't feel comfortable judging the worthiness of a female (especially a minor) on how she's dressed. It feels creepy.
To top it off, we welcomed a new addition to our family back in February, and she happens to be a little girl. So I kind of feel like I need to figure it out pretty soon.
Any thoughts?
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